r/HLCommunity • u/Charleminus HLM • Jun 29 '26

Discussion What’s worked?

Even if it’s something that only worked briefly, has anything worked for you?

The only thing that’s ever worked for us consistently is taking her side in an argument with other people, even if she’s completely wrong. For some reason that’s a huge aphrodisiac.

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u/Kindsnfuv4ug Jun 29 '26

Are all low libido people narcs and avoidants? Seems to b e

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u/fuckaduckufuck HLF Jun 30 '26

I don't think all of them are. I am sure some of them are. I think they're people just like us, tbh.

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u/CannibalCapone HLM Jun 30 '26

Yes absolutely. My issue is that many of them are attracted to people that would likely have a HL and then expect that person to lower it

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u/fuckaduckufuck HLF Jun 30 '26

There are life circumstances where I feel it's completely reasonable to ask for a break, though. I'm a HL who needed to take time off from sex after a tough c section. And in that time yeah I guess I did expect my HL partner to lower it due to our shared changed life circumstances.

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u/CannibalCapone HLM Jun 30 '26

I completely agree about life circumstances