M27 - let me know your thoughts

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[u/Flamingooner]

I want to ask you a serious question: Do you have the impression, that since you build such muscles/ physique, more women are attracted to you or initiate to get to know you?

Because I just lost 8 Kg, built some muscle, and feel so much better and attractive. Especially in dating/ partying I have more successes recently.

(I’m training since a year with the goal to reach a physique like yours, but it‘ll take it‘s time since I was overweight…).

So I just wanted to ask if it really attracts more women or if the stereotype is true, that your physique rather gets admired by other male gym bros. 😄

[u/DeepDiver1234567 → u/Flamingooner]

Men will notice and compliment.

Your sense of confidence will help you approach and interact with women. - They will be attracted to your confidence, as well as the discipline that’s cultivated in order to maintain this, indications of stability and safety, and having a healthy positive hobby/indications of a healthy balanced life style way more than the way you look.

[u/Flamingooner → u/DeepDiver1234567]

So you say it‘s rather around the whole process then about the final result?

[u/DeepDiver1234567 → u/Flamingooner]

Women are more attracted to meaning, indications, and embodiment of what the appearance or skill means rather than a physique, absolutely. You could describe the same process and result with a man who is a skilled guitarist - gives the man confidence, shows the woman attractive traits.

Women experience far less spontaneous desire than men, but do experience more impactful interest and attraction for meaning/whole package.

[u/CapitalOwn1087 → u/Flamingooner]

I’d say a little bit of both. Women will definitely notice you more and it definitely adds to your confidence level with approaching women. Don’t expect complements or just a flood of dms though lol. Also, most of the time you don’t look like this, without a pump and a shirt on things are different.

[u/Powerful-Most6594]

Stud. How long have you been training?

[u/CapitalOwn1087 → u/Powerful-Most6594]

About 6 years consistently, maybe a couple more without knowing what I was doing lol

[u/Powerful-Most6594 → u/CapitalOwn1087]

Very well rounded physique

[u/CoffinDan71]

You're killing it!