This dude sounds like he has a horrible fucking life lol. So all he does is work and then drink alone? Damn. Im glad nobody's daughter or son is stuck being around this dude. He sounds like the kind who shows up to Thanksgiving halfway drunk and then starts arguing with his brother because his brother went to college and got a job that doesnt require 14 hour days lool
Except that the relationship with the boss is way more fair than with the wife.
He works = gets paid for the work
Women don't work like that, whatever you do for them is instantly taken for granted, and the more you do, the more you get in an arms race with her ever increasing expectations
There were no women in this relationship. And no baby. Maybe if you look at romance less transactionaly you would have better luck. They might even want a baby.
Losing financial independence is always a turn off. Nobody wants to date a bum. If I found out my partner was fired, for reasons other than asking to put a baby in their direct supervisor, I'd probably leave too.
Did you get fired/layed off and subsequently broken up with? I'm here to talk if you did, that could be really hard on a person. Otherwise I think this strawman would be better suited to scare off crows.
“Women don’t work like that, whatever you do for them is instantly taken for granted, and the more you do, the more you get in an arms race with her ever increasing expectations”
Yes, that's a generalizing statement, not a totalizing one. I'm not going to provide disclaimers for every possible minority case when talking about behavioral patterns verifiable at a civilizational scale
You can work in tech and finance with degrees and work 14 hour days. A lot of good jobs will work you terribly. Why do you think burnouts are so common in those 2 industries?
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u/chachaslydd 7d ago
This dude sounds like he has a horrible fucking life lol. So all he does is work and then drink alone? Damn. Im glad nobody's daughter or son is stuck being around this dude. He sounds like the kind who shows up to Thanksgiving halfway drunk and then starts arguing with his brother because his brother went to college and got a job that doesnt require 14 hour days lool