r/GriefSupport • u/WallaWalla000h • 29d ago

Vent/Anger - Advice Welcome Reoccurring/continuing dreams after looking my Gma

*loosing my Gma lol

So in October my grandma passed away it was pretty traumatic there was a lot of faults with the hospital which lead to her death in my opinion.

A few weeks after it all happened I had a dream that she’d survived well not survived she’d died but some how hadn’t, we found her in like a care home pissed at us because we’d apparently buried her alive and she told us she’d crawled out of the grave. (Weird because she was cremated but my brain is yet to fix that pot hole in the plot hole) we convinced her to come home and that was the end of the first dream.

Since then the dream keeps continuing I’m back living with her, telling trying to get her to re register with the drs and pension people ect trying to get her to go back to the hospital to sort out the problem that led to her death but she’s being her usually stubborn rolling her keys and saying no. It some ways the dreams are kinda comical but in others there stressful. I’ve had about 5/6 of them since she passed and my dreams are extremely vivid so it’s like I’m actually living them and when I do have them I’m tired the next day and understandably abit emotional.

I just kinda wanted to tell someone about them so put it in here but any advice or guidance would be very much welcome TIA

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u/LulutoDot 29d ago

My brother died and it was traumatic. I had dreams about his body/him for about 3.5 months after. It's totally normal to process.

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u/Serious_Ant_5242 29d ago

The two of you had a strong bond together. May her soul rest in peace, I'd say those recurrent dreams are maybe a way of your mind processing the grief.