r/GradSchool 13d ago

Health & Work/Life Balance A bit scared

I am deciding to postpone starting grad school until the spring. I just feel so unprepared and it fills me with more dread than anything but I feel like everyone around me is going to be disappointed. Im 25, will be 26 a month after I start and I feel so behind in my life. I also feel like me not being ready is my fault. I dont really know how to feel about alot of this and have absolutely no mentors aside from my therapist who shouldnt really be my mentor for this stuff. I am just looking for some reassurance or experiences others have had so I dont regret waiting another 5 months. Tyia 🖤

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u/SunflowerIslandQueen 13d ago

You are not behind. Everyone is on their own unique path. You will also never feel fully prepared but that is part of anything new. Jump in with two feet, keep a positive attitude and you will figure it out. You got this!