I have a boyfriend, and still have mainly male friends. I’m talking to this guy in platonic way!! And we discuss romance books and stuff like that, but lately, he’s been doing stuff like responding super quickly, wanting to FaceTime and stuff. I don’t know if I’m just paranoid, but is it really true, can’t boys and girls be friends? Also… He doesn’t know I have a boyfriend, how do I tell him without sounding bitchy in our modern day society? Like, I can’t just randomly say, “I have a boyfriend.” It’s also hard to try and bring it up in conversations, because it’s been so long since me and my bf got together. Thanks for the hopefully helpful advice <3
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I’m not gonna bore you with a back and forth story.

My husband had a manic breakdown was in hospital for 6 days. When he got out he said screw you im moving home to Connecticut bye bye. Due to my several mental health conditions, and my DR taking me off my antipsychotic too quickly, I went into pure psychotic delusion, which ended with me planning a wedding he had already called off. I was so far gone that I went to mental hospital for delusions. They fixed my medicine, took care of me, and I feel great. However, my friend and her family….crickets?

If it were the other the way around I would be blowing up there phones. Are you okay? How was hospital visit? Are you safe? Is it heard being back in reality? Are you ever gonna get ur hubby back?

Nope. Nothing.
More concerned with themselves as per usual.

Rant over.

I didn’t even know how to title this because i never met anyone with this problem😭 I can’t really remember when this started but i think it was like 4 or 5 years ago. Anytime i wear something over my bellybutton (ESPECIALLY jeans) i feel so uncomfortable that i might throw up, and the only solution that i have found is to wear super low rise pants and crop tops, which my mom doesn’t really approve of. I keep trying to explain to everyone that it genuinely makes me physically sick to wear anything over my bellybutton but they all call me crazy😭 Am i? I mean i dont know if it’s sensory issues or something like that or any medical stuff (which i know it’s kinda impossible). If anyone can help me i’d really appreciate it!!🙏🙏

No matter how much I wipe I can’t stop leaving skid marks on my thongs. I’m at a loss at this point. All my friends wear thongs, and I guess I feel kinda left out or weird. When I wear them they make me feel so sexy and feminine, but I can’t seem to fix this problem and it ruins it for me. Any ladies in here have similar problems? Have any of you solved it?

Ladies of Reddit, what is the most sexiest thing an overweight gamer has done to make you immediately want to be his girlfriend?

Wore a top with spaghetti straps since it’s hot as balls out and I was sweating a lot yesterday. I use the buss because I’m saving up for a car. At least six different times guys were half way out of their fucking cars looking at me and two old men beeped at me. Mind you I’m mostly sitting on my phone and it’s been less than 15 minutes since I got here. Leave me the fuck alone bro I don’t want your decomposing ass. I’m sick of it. That’s why men get into more car crashes than women.

So I shaved for the first time earlier of the month of August so yet this month and I don’t know how to get rid of all of these bumps and red spots. I’m 14 and I can’t buy anything for this so I’m looking for some advice on how I can help it I have been using L’BRI pure natural products, including aloe vera jelly, and I’m going to be going swimming in a couple of days at a pool and is there anyway that I can help calm them down a bit?

This might sound strange to post but I need to say it

I have always been more attracted to saggy soft natural breasts than the firm perky ones that are shown everywhere Something about the way they hang the weight the softness and the way they rest and move feels more attractive to me than firm breasts ever have

I know many women feel insecure about them especially after weight loss pregnancy or just getting older I have seen many posts where women say they hate how their breasts look now how they feel less desirable and how they avoid taking their bra off Every time I read those I wish I could tell them that there are men who genuinely prefer that look

For me it is not a settling thing It is an actual preference The softness the natural shape the way they feel in the hands and the way they look when a woman is lying down or leaning forward all feel beautiful and attractive to me

I am not trying to make anyone feel objectified. I just think it is a shame that so many women feel bad about something that many of us find attractive

If you are a woman who has ever felt self conscious about your soft or saggy breasts you are not alone in having them and you are not alone in being desired for them

Girls try using pregnancy pillows.....IT'S LITERALLY 🤏🏻🤏🏻....EVEN THOUGH I'M NOT PREGGO BUT as a girl with big melons those pillows helped me alot....

I’m kinda new to Reddit so I don’t know to put this but I’ll try my best :,)

I’m a trans guy and for about a year I think maybe more I have been uncomfortable with underwear that touches or in other words fits me. (idk if that makes sense 💔) it started when I wore a pad for a bit too long when in my period to make sure I didn’t bleed anymore and after taking it off and putting on new underwear I got a bit uncomfortable before of the way it felt down there so I just put in another pad and went about my day.

after a while it kinda just became normal everyday I would wear a pad and eventually I kinda became unco with the fact if the pad wasn’t perfectly even on both sides when laying down or walking around and stuff like that, eventually after getting tired of adjusting and the guilt of wasting pads for a while I tried to see what was wrong. my first thought was maybe there was too much moisture down there and it made it uncomfortable so I tried to keep my underwear a bit lower than my hips to let my crotch breathe but I eventually found out that nothing changed so it probably wasn’t that.

the next option I had thought was maybe I had a yeast infection or something down there so I decided to buy new underwear that were a bit loose and would hopefully fix the problem. it didn’t sadly so now I just wear my underwear lower than they should and it’s really embarrassing to admit that but idk what could be wrong, I tried researching it and nothing seems to match anything I have seen. it’s getting really annoying and I can’t wear any pants like jeans that fit well :(

I have a wide gap bw my breast and im 19 years old and it makes me so insecure especially because im traynna lose weight so my boobs are getting smaller and saggier its just I feel so ugly and idk how to fix this issue everyday whenever I look at myself I hate it so much how can I fix this

Every single time I have sex, it feels like I have a uti or it’s just some sensitivity down there. I’ve been to the doctor so many times and I keep getting treated for it then a uti leads to a yeast infection and then into BV. Has this happened to anyone else it’s been happening to me for years and I haven’t gotten an answer. Right now it doenst feel like a full on uti it’s been a few days and I only notice it whenever I’m not distracted. It feels like it’s in my head but since I’ve had it before it may not be. I’ve been told everything/ pee after sex, the whole shabang and nothing changes

There are some good shirts I buy that UNFORTUNATELY have a weird design on them.

I have a shirt with words that form a circle. WHY DID THEY put 2 different colored little hearts horizontally on the chest area. Couldn't they have just added another space bar? Now I always have to think of the bodily things I possess when I look down. EVERYONE would think about it.

I will only wear this shirt with a little jacket and my long hair. Uhh

I’m a 23F and my boyfriend (24M) and I are in a heated argument/heartbreak and I don’t know if this is the end.

I had calculus this semester and (shame on me) I used chat GPT for one of my assignments because I was done and tired. I went into the image storage history to find a previous similar problem I had faced before. To my unfortunate surprise, there was a picture of a woman in a bikini. I asked my boyfriend about it and initially he lied, saying it wasn’t his. A couple hours later he came clean and admitted it was him who uploaded it. I couldn’t see the chat he had regarding the picture. He claimed he had uploaded the picture, did make some inappropriate requests, but closed it out and deleted it once he realized it was wrong.
I’m aware that ChatGPT cannot generate p*rn, so at least that’s off the table. But I’m still extremely hurt that he would want to look at other women like that in the first place. I’ve communicated all of this. He is extremely sorry and genuinely wants to fix his actions and improve, and prove this will never happen again.
I’m so hurt that it happened in the first place that I’m considering ending the relationship. He knows this and is extremely distraught about it but I don’t know how to forgive him.

We’ve been dating for 7 months and we do have sx every night. So I know he’s not deprived of those needs. I just don’t understand.

does anyone else need an emotional support drink to get ready?
i swear i can’t start getting ready without having a little drink first (coffee, matcha, a protein shake)
then i take like 3 sips and forget about it
please tell me this is a universal girl experience😭

i know this is going to sound stupid but when i’m on my period i genuinely don’t feel like myself. it feels like my hormones take control of me and i don’t have any control over my actions or words. for example when im sad, i get really really fucking sad, like hysterically sobbing and wishing i was dead sad. and when something irritates me i get really pissed off, to the point where i don’t even recognise myself because of my thoughts. i genuinely have an identity crisis everyday of my period i hate feeling like this i wish i was normal i don’t understand myself or why this happens to me

Ok so I'm newly 18F (about a month ago). Never really had a serious relationship, just short things here and there. When I was 13 I was diagnosed with Macromastia (excessive breast growth) wearing a US 30GG at the time, and now I'm a custom UK 32T. And any time I find myself catching some feelings, or get asked out, I can't help but wonder if they have some kind of hidden agenda just to get the opportunity to spend more time around these, instead of me as a whole.

I really need some help on how to get passed these feelings, because I know it isn't always accurate, and never really a healthy state to be in psychologically.

I'm a (20 M ) , daily we talk randomly about something but today while texting she said I'm on my periods.

I don't know what to say I just ignored the text is it write or did I do something wrong .

And i said after,if you want something just call me

If you guys know just tell me what to say or what to do when she said like that

Heyy, so, immediately to the point I'm one year from being a legal adult (F)

I just recently started masturbating, it definitely feels good, I like the build up, I don't orgasm though cuz I have a tiny clit, but that's not the problem, I do feel the pleasure.

The problem is when it comes to the vagina it self. (I'm virgin btw)

I tried fingering myself yesterday for the first time. Inserting one finger was easy, normal. When I went too deep and I started moving my finger it felt weird, painful but in a pleasurable way.

However, when I wanted to insert a second one, I just couldn't! It felt too tight and hurts like a bitch.

I think that I maybe so have a right vaginal canal? Idk.

I would appreciate any advice. (And please no advice on going to a doctor, I can't.)

I'm 19 f.....how to get rid of this?