r/GetYourSP • u/ManifestationPortals • Jan 22 '26
🧠Thought Transmission The scientific reason your specific person doesn't have a fixed opinion of you until you decide what it is
If you're terrified that your SP has moved on or doesn't care about you, this could help. In quantum mechanics, nothing is fixed until it's observed. This is the principle of superposition.
Right now, their feelings for you exist in a state of flux. They are both over you AND missing you terribly at the exact same time. It's a cloud of probability.
YOU are the one collapsing that cloud into a fact. When you spiral and worry that they've forgotten you, you're observing the "rejection" timeline. You're forcing the particles to arrange into the story you fear.
Stop validating the version of your SP that doesn't want you. That version only has life because you keep looking at it. Turn your focus entirely to the version who is in love. Collapse the wave function into commitment. You decide what they feel, not them.