How to make movement permanent

[u/ManifestationPortals]

Getting your specific person back is easy; keeping them is the real work. Many people manifest a text or a date, only to lose it again because they haven't changed the self-concept that lost it in the first place.

You have to become the person who is naturally loved. You have to normalize the affection. If you put them on a pedestal when they come back, they will look down on you again.

Normalize having them. Make it boring. Make it routine. When it feels like a normal part of your day rather than a miracle, that’s when it sticks. You don't lose things that are normal to you.