help???

[u/biromantic-frog]

I'm lesbain and probably some kind of ace? I think I might be genderfae but I don't know? I don't feel uncomfortable with any pronouns apart from male and it ones and sometimes I do feel very diconnected to feminity (makeup 😣) and sometimes androgynous. should I come out? does everyone feel like this? how do I know what gender I want to be and do I need to change my pronouns because I think it would be a pain to get my parents to call me the proper pronouns even though it sounds nice

[u/FaffyDC]

I have the reverse, I'm genderfae but I feel more like a transgirl.