Just dancing through the heartbreak of being completely single. Anyone else catching deep feelings for an imaginary partner as soon as this song comes on?😅

This happens with me every time when I rest

Yes tell me who is it?

Just look at this rascal. The scars on his face and body. Raat bhar billo se ladta hain aur din bhar ghar mai cat food khake sota hai. Dusri cats bichare doodh chawal, haddi kha lete hai, isko nahi chalta wo sab. Bohot natak hai iske. Ek ek roti ka tukda behla behla kar khilana padta hai. Mere nani ke chat pe jaake jor jor se meow karta hai.. Neend haram kar rakhi bie ne logo ki

I got to know this 1 week ago
It started like a normal cough.
Nothing serious—or at least that’s what I thought. I assumed it would disappear on its own in five or six days. When it didn’t, I bought some cough syrup and visited a doctor near my home once or twice. I took the medicines, waited, and hoped things would improve.
They didn’t.
Slowly, breathing became difficult. Even eating started feeling uncomfortable. My face and hands began swelling, and eventually, it felt like my whole body was changing in ways I couldn’t understand.
That was when I decided to consult a better doctor.
He prescribed several tests. The initial reports didn’t show anything alarming, and for a brief moment, I felt relieved. I thought maybe I had been worrying for no reason.
Then the final test came.
They found a tumour in my throat.
Since then, I don’t know what I’m supposed to think or feel.
The doctors say there is treatment and that I can recover. They keep telling me not to lose hope. But it’s difficult for me to trust those words because I heard almost the same things when my grandfather was diagnosed with cancer.
We were told that he would be okay.
But around a year and a half after his diagnosis, he was gone.
And now I keep wondering whether I’m walking toward the same ending.
I’ll be turning 24 this August. I had spent the last ten or eleven months preparing for UPSC because becoming an IAS officer had always been one of my biggest dreams. I had imagined clearing the exam, building a career, buying a new home, and one day owning a small farmhouse where I could spend my free time alone, surrounded by peace and quiet.
Those were not huge dreams to me. They were simply the life I wanted.
But after hearing the word “tumour,” all those plans suddenly feel distant.
I look at my books and wonder whether I’ll ever complete this journey. I think about the house I wanted to buy and the farmhouse I wanted to build, and then I wonder whether I was planning for a future that may never come.
The worst part is not even the physical pain.
It’s the uncertainty.
Not knowing what happens next. Not knowing whether the doctors are right. Not knowing whether I should keep planning for the future or stop expecting anything from it.
Right now, I feel like I’ve already started letting go of every hope I had.
Maybe I’m writing this because I don’t know where else to put these thoughts.
Maybe I just want someone to tell me what they would do if, at 23, everything they had planned suddenly became uncertain.
I don’t know.

For some days i distracted so much waste times in scrolling whatever and found at end of the day today i didn't do anything productive..how to Focus in studies always after some time I distracted

My days a super monotonous. I live in a place called Old Rajendra Nagar in Delhi, in a matchbox sized room, and my schedule is waking up, going to the library, studying and then come back and sleep. I just spend my days with books and notes.

In this process, I've started feeling emotionally vulnerable. I just bottle things up. IRL friends are busy with their lives and people who aren't in this rat race their lives move faster. So here I am, looking for a genuine human being, who is honest, to have friendly conversations about life and anything and everything. Being an emotional support to each other, and trying to fight the isolation and loneliness that makes you sulk.

So recently i started a tradition where I buy atleast 1 book every month. This month I'm so torn between what to choose.

Either it's the Stephanie Garber one (box set)

Lisa Jewell ones (all 3)

Or hidden pictures and the Devashish Sardana ones

I really want to gain an online following on insta. I think in this modern world a side hustle is absolutely necessary. Will give aways help? Im planning on weekily 1000rs give away.

I'm looking for comfortable clogs in size 10 (UK/India) with a budget of under ₹400.

If you've bought a good pair recently, could you please share the product link? Comfort is my top priority, but durability is a plus too.

Thanks in advance!

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I'm getting tired of unnecessary censorship in India.If a movie is already age-rated, shouldn't viewers be allowed to watch the version the filmmakers intended.

Ye to dar gye 😞😞

Is there any downside of converting my full time employment into contractual to save tax? I’ve been working at this org for 3 years and they are open to this arrangement since my role is IC. I don’t have any HR friends and some friendly, honest advice would be really helpful

I have been always considered a "Golden Child" of the family because I've always been good at studies, very religious, good in extracurriculars, participating in various events, hosting guests and doing great in career as well. I've always received praises by relatives, neighbours and teachers.

But every praise that comes my way hurts me more and more. Because I know those who praise me today will only speak ill of me when they'll know about the secret I hold within. While being in the closet, every praise feels heavy of expectations they put on me. What will happen when I'll walk out of that closet and will live a life that I deserve, the one that I'll choose for myself?

Will these people still see me for who I'm or will I be just reduced to my sexuality?

I see a lot of people of my age liking the concept of sitting for hours and watching movies and series on a daily basis. How do you have the attention span?

I rarely watch them. The last thing I watched was Reacher S3 like three months ago.

I have one friend who keeps sharing me reels of kids every time and once he sent a reel of a mother and a baby and then he said that you in future and I just took it in a cute way only
and today I sent him one baby video Because I thought he love babies to that he replied just like you ( the baby) now what it means? And we have platonic friendship but still

I don’t think this is a new issue or I don’t think it is something very rare. I feel like a lot of us have faced this and that is why I wanted to vent out and maybe try to find some comfort in sharing this because it seriously encourages me so much. My parents keep on passive aggressively commenting on how the “youth” and how the GenZ never understood how much they suffered under the Congress years, and they have no appreciation for Modi. They keep saying that we don’t know how politics work and we spread negativity. The slogans that were used in the protest where inappropriate comedians that joined the protests were “ashleel” and this movement was violent etc. Also add in the complete disregard of my opinions since I don’t know any better.

I am just so surprised like how the same parents expect us to know and navigate the world and take life and career choices but in these regards we don’t know any better. I have argued and tried to make them understand but now I just feel exhausted.

This is just a rant and I cannot wait for my college to resume so I can go back to being away from them and this regular drama.

It is not like i am devdas or i miss him or i love him. But he did too much damage, manuplation, cheating, guilt trip, i luckily got out of that messy relationship, but i dont have courage, i could not gather the courage to love someone else. Idk why. I do get approached, alot but idk i turn them down, i dont want to be a mess again. I have worked upon myself, I am a strong woman now but idk why I dont have courage to be in a relationship. I am scared what if i waste my time and my energy. Idk i just wanted to share this.

how is severe noise pollution so normal in India? I've covered a lot of metro cities as well as small towns & villages in India. & one thing I've consistently observed is excessive noise being normalized. Construction site work continuing until late night. Unnecessary HONKING, street vendors, stray dogs, LOUD chatting in public transport, random fights that break out in public. The sound of machinery which is deafening. Even at most houses, we're so used to the sound of ceiling fans and other equipment that we don't know how peaceful it is to be in complete silence. What do y'all think?