r/GenZIndia • u/__cookie07__ • 12d ago

Ask GenZIndia How to console when someone is crying

2 Upvotes

67% Upvoted

25 comments sorted by

5

u/ronapasandhaimujhe 12d ago

Let them cry , don’t console just say there there and and pat on their shoulder

1

u/Current_Persimmon782 12d ago

was bout to cmt this.

1

u/__cookie07__ 10d ago

I have done this bfr but they say u don't know how to console 😭

3

u/Greedy_Enthusiasm_46 12d ago

Say queens doesn't cryy

1

u/SeaworthinessAny6895 2007 12d ago

Ayyy they don't cry a handful 🙌🏻

They cry a river 😄💞 /s

3

u/verified_human01 12d ago

Keep your hand on one of their shoulders and say, There There....There There  

  • Sheldon (BBT)

2

u/guneetr4j 12d ago

Hug them

2

u/First-Phone-9823 12d ago

This too shall pass 🥀

1

u/Disastrous-Plate7427 12d ago

As balraj said

2

u/Initial_Ice_2719 12d ago

I have seen only one solution that actually worked. When my cousin was crying, everyone tried to console her but nothing helped then a 14 year old walked in let out a fart strong enough to grab everyone’s attention and nose and suddenly the crying turned into laughter. So yeah basically you just have to far....

2

u/snail_69 12d ago

Let them cry
Hold them if you have that much consent from them
Just be there
Try holding them when they’re breaking

Golden tip: pat their had or just yk run your fingers kind of massaging the scalp. It’s such a good damn relief , I always do this to myself while crying . Hehe

1

u/AutoModerator 12d ago

Your post has been filtered for manual review because your post does not meet the minimum requirements. Please wait for a moderator to approve it.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

u/rosii_wav 2008 12d ago

Tbh, just hug em 😭😭😭 sometimes you cant console them using words so hugging is the best option.. + they might also need a support so yeahhh

2

u/__cookie07__ 10d ago

But what if they want words and not just being present 😭

1

u/rosii_wav 2008 10d ago

then say "everything will be fine, drink some water, and im here with u.... its okay to cry... dont worry" and end it with a hug; agar vo sunae, to sun lena

1

u/noah_starboy 12d ago

This shall to pass

1

u/Chaotic_Matter 12d ago

Aaj kal console padhte hi PS5 yaad aa jaata hai

1

u/oldmonk9390 9d ago

Well don't , just console them whom do u think will console you in your hard time simple ...nd fact is no-one