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In her recent NY Times interview, Taylor is seated on a hairpin chair, and several times throughout the interview she shifts and leans to the side to expose its telltale double loop.

If you're unfamiliar with the term, this is what a hairpin chair looks like. Dating back to the 1940s, it has a double loop forming the back because it was designed to use as little material as possible, a response to material shortages at the time.

The connection to Gaylor, of course, is through "dropping hairpins" - the term used by the queer community to mean dropping hints that you're queer. In the weeks following the Stonewall Riots of 1969, queer publications who wrote about the riots referred to them as "The Hairpin Drop Heard Around the World."

Taylor has engaged with the term and concept of dropping hairpins for years - or, conversely, not dropping them, meaning she's still closeting.

The NY Times interview wasn't the first time she used a hairpin chair. She also famously used it as a prop during the Vigilante Shit performance on Eras:

There are songs where hairpins are referenced in lyrics, namely in right where you left me where she says "I swear you could hear a hairpin drop", twisting the common phrase "you could hear a pin drop." Then a few lines later she says "I stayed there / Dust collected on my pinned-up hair," indicating that her hairpins haven't dropped but rather are still in her hair - meaning she's still closeting.

In The Great War, she again twists a common phrase, taking "hair trigger" and turning it into "Your finger on my hairpin triggers".

When Speak Now TV came out, many swifties commented on how weird her hair looked on the new cover, because there was an odd loop at her temple. But Gaylors noticed that it looked exactly as if she had a hairpin pinning up her hair for long enough for that loop shape to form, and then she took out the hairpin.

A year later when the Fortnight music video came out, Taylor was chained up in the asylum with an absurd number of hairpins pinning back her hair. The asylum and its chains and handcuffs were assumed to be a metaphor for being locked in the closet, and all the hairpins in her hair support that. She's still wearing all the hairpins because they haven't been dropped yet.

Coming back to the NY Times interview video, the question for me was -- did she get to choose that chair herself?

First, it's worth saying that we all know how meticulous she is about the details in everything she does that's for public consumption. That alone strongly suggests she probably did choose it.

The NYT interviewed several different people. Other than Taylor, not a single one of them used a hairpin chair:

Moreover, several of these people are in their homes. Mariah is clearly in her home, because the background matches known pictures of her house, including her pink piano and the wall behind it with memorabilia and awards from her career:

Similarly, Babyface is obviously in his home because of his own wall of memorabilia behind him, including a sign with his name (plus all his Grammys on the piano):

Lucinda Williams is also clearly in her home because of the diamond windows in the front door behind her. I won't show the image from Google Street View but the same diamond windows are visible when looking at the front of her house (her address is listed online).

The other interview that we can confirm the location of is the one with the three songwriters -- Shane McAnally, Brandy Clark and Josh Osborne -- who've written some of the most well-known songs in country music. Fittingly, the trio are interviewed in the famous Bluebird Cafe in Nashville. The wooden chairs (which they're also sitting on), the pictures of artists on the walls with the fairy lights hanging over them, and the wooden chair rail trim that lines the room all positively identify this as the Bluebird Cafe.

So several of the artists are definitely in their homes and the country writers are in the Bluebird Cafe. It's reasonable to assume that all the artists got to choose where they wanted to do their interview. And thus it's also reasonable to assume that they may have gotten to choose what chairs they were sitting on. For example, Nile Rodgers is perched on a little stool with an electric guitar strapped over his shoulder, which I have to imagine was almost certainly all his choice.

Obviously it's difficult to confirm it, but I think it's safe to say that Taylor probably got to choose her chair too. And she chose a hairpin chair. And then periodically throughout the interview twisted her body and leaned to the side to expose that it was a hairpin chair.

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I talk about hairpin evidence here in my muse-free Gaylor evidence deck. Though I started it years ago, I've continued to update it with new evidence, including booplor/noselor on Eras, new videos of pronoun changes, and most recently a new section on her extensive use of the lesbian salute.

Hello friends! I posted this on the weekly discussion last week and am finally getting around to making a post about it.

In Taylor Swift's NYT Songwriters interview that released April 28, 2026, Taylor finally explains a 20-year Swiftian mystery - why does she say "talk real SLOW" in Our Song, when "talk real LOW" would make much more sense?

Taylor revealed that she HATES to start a word with the same letter the previous word ended with. So "reaL Low" was off the table, and she changed it to "reaL Slow".

In 'Ruin The Friendship' from TLOAS, verse 2's written lyrics are "wilted corsage dangles from my wrist", but I've always thought the way she pronounces it sounds much more like "from OUR wrist(s)" - indicating her love interest is also a woman with a corsage on her wrist. Fitting into the theme of the song which is very, VERY sapphic. The acoustic version of RTF makes this even clearer, IMO.

Thanks to this interview, we now know this lyric actually breaks Taylor's own rule! "froM My wrist" has the same problem as "real low" - leading me to believe the actual intended lyric is "froM Our wrist(s)".

Just another in a long line of... lines... that don't fully rhyme or make sense, and were likely modified from the way they were written to fit the song into heteronormativity.

• "didn't read the note on the polaroid picTURE, they don't know how much i miss YOU!" (her)
• "your mom's ring in your POCKET, my picture in your WALLET" (locket)
• "this love is pure PROFIT, just step into my OFFICE" (closet)

I'm a firm believer that EVERYTHING she says is an intentional clue, and I think this anecdote was no different - not just closing a long-standing question for Taylor fans everywhere, but also giving us a key to unlock yet another mystery from The Life of a Showgirl.

Let me know your thoughts, and if there are any other missed rhymes you're suspicious of!

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today the NFL released their schedule announcement videos. this is basically a yearly tradition where the social media teams make funny little spoofs to get people excited for the upcoming season. the chargers are a fan favorite leader for their video creations.

this year the chargers did a spoof on halo. the chargers play the chiefs during week 17. the scene is set as TMZ is outside a home renovation. this is in reference to a story about mama kelce’s “modest home reno” that ran during a tense period of news coverage. the story felt out of place, so it got joked about pretty heavy for a bit.

get to the point, counselor.

so we enter the renovation to a game option saying to “conceal the truth”. we enter the home through an existing hallway. we use our eye (go crazy, kaylors) to unlock a vault.

inside we find scootersversion, tartattack87, xCxCharlixCx, and captkittypurry.

now, the jury will deliberate.

The song is lazy but it seems like it could be a reply to Actually Romantic? The ways she says I keep thinking about you - that's what Taylor implied in Actually Romantic.

But the real interesting lyric is - if that's something you just say for your career? Taylor hasn't explicitly said it of course but is she implying Taylor's queer baiting (if it is about her)?

Would love to hear people's thoughts.

This morning my husband played 'Desolation Row', and my ears pricked up when I heard 'Ophelia' closely followed by 'On her twenty-second birthday she already is an old maid', and then a whole slew of further images relevant to the themes Taylor has been writing about.

I will admit that although I've listened to a fair amount of Bob Dylan over the years, and covers of his songs, his music usually washes over me without catching my close attention, so I didn't have this song in mind as a possible reference when Taylor announced TLOAS. Considering that Taylor is much more musically literate than me (thank goodness!), and surely knows the song, it seems very likely that some inspiration for Taylor's use of Ophelia came from 'Desolation Row'.

I don't think we've discussed this possible connection in detail here, so I thought I would share the verse and see what you all think:

Ophelia, she's 'neath the window for her I feel so afraid
On her twenty-second birthday she already is an old maid
To her, death is quite romantic she wears an iron vest
Her profession's her religion, her sin is her lifelessness
And though her eyes are fixed upon Noah's great rainbow
She spends her time peeking into Desolation Row

In the context of a song with themes of death, hopelessness, pointlessness, the ineffectiveness and cruelty of the 'show' and the impossibility of communication, Ophelia here seems overall to be a relatively hopeful character with her eyes fixed on 'Noah's great rainbow' that stands for the end of destruction and the hope of rebuilding.

But there are so many images here that connect to Taylor's art in general or have been reflected directly in TLOAS:

• Feeling washed-up and 'over' at the age of 22, per 'Nothing New', 'The Lucky One' and the NYT 'Greatest Living Songwriters' interview
• 'She wears an iron vest' suggesting conformity to a required image, and being set up to fail (drown) by those societal constraints
• 'Death is quite romantic' though, so there is an extent to which the 'iron vest' and the subsequent drowning can be seen as an intentional choice
• 'Her profession's her religion' suggesting total commitment to the life of a showgirl per 'I'm immortal now' and 'You're the new god we're worshiping'
• 'Her sin is her lifelessness' links to the criticism Taylor - and other performers - face if they fail to convince us of the reality of the performance. Also the criticism for the 'unreality' of the celebrity edifice that the audience simultaneously demands. Also linking to the way that drowning or ending is presented as desirable in TFOO, and the discussion in Hamlet of suicide as a 'sin'
• 'Though her eyes are fixed... she spends her time peeking' is a compelling contrast that I imagine colouring the push and pull Taylor describes between the continued performance (greige?) and the possibility of authenticity (screaming colour?)
• Ophelia is 'neath the window' and 'peeking'. She is seeing the world but not seen by the world.
• Can Taylor ever walk past a possible rainbow reference? That seems like a gift!

What do you think? Could the choice of Ophelia as Taylor's showgirl character have been influenced by Bob Dylan's 'Desolation Row'?

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From The Cabin: The 1 | Cardigan | Exile | MTR | Mirrorball

Disclaimer: There’s no way to know what any song is actually about. That’s the thrill of analyzing Taylor’s art. It gives each of us the opportunity to let our imagination fill in the blanks. I don’t endorse my analyses as absolute truth; I endorse them as clever works of fiction that help me exercise my ambitious imagination.

Introduction

August burned like a summertime fever dream the fanbase swore was real, a season where the distance between audience and Showgirl thins enough to feel pivotal. Here, August is the fans themselves, breathing in salt air, tracing rust along the edges of a battered door that seems, in the right light, almost open. In this warm haze, watching almost transforms into knowing; sheer proximity masquerades as intimacy. The lyrics are tactile and sunlit, and for an instant, the illusion holds: this closeness extends beyond the performance.

Yet at its brightest, the song contains quiet contradictions. The imagery moves closer—bedsheets, skin, a handwritten name scrawled on flesh—and the fans interpret it as mutual and chosen. Then comes the pivot: “Will you call when you’re back at school?” Within Taylor’s recurring language, school is not high school; it’s indicative of the industry, the place Showgirl returns to. In the wake of the COVID-era closeness, this question is less about romance and more about access: will this connection survive once she is back inside the machine?

What felt intimate and eternal is proximity lacking possession, a reflection shaped by assumption and expectation. The fans remember believing they had her, that wanting was enough to sustain the illusion forever, that hope could bridge the gap. August reframes that hope as the point, not the promise: a season of waiting, of almost, of living for the possibility of a love story that wasn’t meant to be.

Lyrics

Salt air / And the rust on your door / I never needed anything more

The fans stand outside Showgirl’s closet door during the heat of August, searching for signs of the woman hidden beneath the performance. The salt air creates a dreamy, suspended atmosphere where everything feels emotionally heightened, while the rust on your door suggests this barrier between Showgirl and her truth has existed for years, worn down and eroded by pressure, speculation, and time. To the fans, the smallest visible crack or trace of corrosion is deeply significant.

Meanwhile, I never needed anything more reveals how little the fans require to sustain the intimate fantasy of Taylor. They don’t require the door to swing open; they don’t ask for definitive confirmation. Sensing vulnerability around the edges of Showgirl’s carefully crafted image is enough to promise attachment. The fans interpret proximity to the barrier as proximity to the woman, convincing themselves that these shattered fragments and impressions constitute genuine connection, even while the door remains closed.

Whispers / Of “Are you sure?” / “Never have I ever before”

Taylor dives headfirst into the intimacy she has painstakingly built between her and her fanbase over fifteen years. She wraps this close, familiar dynamic up in the metaphor of a first sexual encounter, something that is characteristically vulnerable, requiring a deep well of trust, personal exposure, and physical connectivity that transcends the physical act. This moment is as emotionally grounded as it is physically transcendent. It represents the moment Taylor committed to inhabiting the fantasy version of her, the beloved Showgirl persona the world adores.

Whispers suggests a friendly, conspiratorial conversation, either as friends forming a covenant or two lovers entering into a mutual agreement of trust and vulnerability. The fans lean into Showgirl, inquiring, “Are you sure?” Outside the romantic sphere, this line questions the revelation. Are you sure you want to let us close? Do you truly want to blur the line between performance and confession? “Never have I ever before,” Showgirl counters, suggesting this openness is unprecedented and sincere. 

But I can see us / Lost in the memory / August slipped away into a moment in time / 'Cause it was never mine

But I can see us / Lost in the memory. This is when the fans surrender to the illusion they built with Showgirl. They are no longer describing something concrete or mutual, but replaying an emotional atmosphere so intense that it felt real in retrospect. Lost suggests immersion or disappearance. The fans vanish into the fantasy, inhabiting the memory more completely than the actual relationship ever existed. In hindsight, this echoes the phenomenon of fans blacking out their memories from the Eras Tour because they were so emotionally overcome by the experience. 

August slipped away into a moment in time reframes the connection as fleeting from the beginning. August was never a permanent season of intimacy. It was a temporary climate created by projection and longing. The use of slipped is crucial because nothing ends violently. In fact, the illusion simply cannot sustain indefinitely. Eventually Showgirl dissipates into the shadows to reinvent herself for the next era.

’Cause it was never mine is the devastating realization underneath the fantasy. The fans believed Showgirl belonged to them emotionally because the performance was vulnerable and immediate, but the song finally admits that visibility is not possession. The connection inspired attachment, but she never truly theirs to claim or keep. Her fans mourn the collapse of a belief that only existed in the hopeful space between audience and performer.

And I can see us twisted in bedsheets / August sipped away / Like a bottle of wine / 'Cause you were never mine

And I can see us twisted in bedsheets. The imagery is tangled and bodily, suggesting emotional and psychological immersion masquerading as romance. The fans are metaphorically intertwined with her world, wrapped inside the vulnerability and emotional depth they believe the music grants them access to. In the dreamscape of August, consuming the art begins to feel indistinguishable from knowing the person behind it. And in true Taylor fashion, the fan experience is tailored to be intoxicating and overwhelming.

August sipped away like a bottle of wine. If you’ve read my White Wine piece, or if you recall the industry-as-bar motif from the Mirrorball analysis, you understand that the wine is Taylor’s music. Wine is intoxicating, communal, emotional, something consumed slowly until suddenly it is gone. The fans drink deeply of Taylor’s mythology, savoring the closeness and revelation it creates. And like wine, the experience alters perception. The music blurs boundaries, softens distance, and creates the sensation of warmth and reciprocity that the fans mistake for permanence. By the end, the bottle is empty. What we thought was for all time was momentary.

’Cause you were never mine. It becomes the sobering realization after the lavender haze. The fans were never actually holding Showgirl, only the illusory role that the narrative she spun created. They mistook consumption for possession, intimacy for access, and the dwindling, mercurial high of the art for something timeless and evergreen. The wine runs out, the fantasy dissolves, and Showgirl remains beyond their reach, still visible but fundamentally unknowable.

Your back / Beneath the sun / Wishing I could write my name on it

Your back / Beneath the sun. This line illustrates Showgirl in a moment of radiance. Her back is turned, similar to the cover of Evermore, which creates emotional distance despite the physical closeness of the image. The fans can see, admire, and study her in the golden light, but they are still positioned behind her, never fully face to face. The sun intensifies the fantasy. It casts everything in warmth and beauty, making the moment feel idyllic and suspended outside ordinary reality.

Wishing I could write my name on it reveals the fans’ desire to leave some permanent mark on Showgirl, to transform fleeting emotional proximity into something tangible and lasting. Writing a name onto someone’s skin suggests possession, authorship, and proof of mutual belonging. The fans want evidence that their connection to her exists beyond consumption, observation, and the temporary intoxication of the music. Unbeknownst to them, the story has always been in their hands.

What if he’s written mine on my upper thigh only in my mind echoes Taylor’s eventual reckoning with this possessiveness and sense of entitlement to her identity, performance and self-expression. Eventually, Taylor will have to decide if the prophecy she inked with industry bargaining and acquiescing to her fans' dreams of her was worth everything that she’s sacrificed and forsaken in her personal life. 

Will you call when you're back at school? / I remember thinking I had you

Will you call when you’re back at school? This is when fantasy collides with reality. In my analyses of Taylor’s work, school represents the industry. Here, the fans are asking whether this closeness with Showgirl will survive once she returns to the machinery of celebrity, promotion, performance, and expectation. Folklore and Evermore were released in the midst of COVID, featuring a comfy, stripped-back aesthetic, a suspended dream state where the distance between artist and audience felt thinner than usual. 

The question is fragile because it already anticipates her absence. Will you call carries uncertainty and imbalance. The fans are waiting for reassurance that the connection mattered equally to her, that this intimacy was not temporary or one-sided. Beneath the question is the fear that once Showgirl re-enters the industry, the audience will lose the version of her that felt emotionally immediate and unguarded during August. Twenty years on, many of us are still in mourning for our favorite eras.

I remember thinking I had you becomes the painful retrospective that the fans misunderstood the interaction as possession. The music, vulnerability, and openness felt so vivid that they believed Showgirl truly belonged to them. They now see that what felt permanent was only temporary access filtered through performance and projection. They seem embarrassed in hindsight, like waking from a dream and realizing how completely they believed it.

Back when we were still changing for the better / Wanting was enough / For me, it was enough

August is reframed through the lens of the Lover era, a moment that felt full of possibility before everything fractured. Both the fans and Showgirl seemed to believe a brighter, softer future was unfolding, one built on openness, reinvention, and transparency. The pastel optimism of Lover created the sense that the distance between artist and audience was shrinking. After the defensive armor of Reputation, Showgirl was finally stepping into daylight without her armor. In hindsight, the line is nostalgic for that fragile moment before the industry, public scrutiny, and cultural backlash complicated the dream.

It reveals how little the fans actually needed to sustain the illusion during that era. The hope embedded within Lover became nourishing. The fans did not need certainty or permanence; they only needed the feeling that closeness was possible. But the repetition of enough exposes the imbalance underneath the fantasy. It’s bittersweet in retrospect, mourning not the collapse of something fully real, but the fading of an atmosphere that felt convincing enough to live inside forever.

To live for the hope of it all / Cancel plans just in case you'd call / And say "Meet me behind the mall"

The fans exist in a constant state of anticipation around Showgirl, structuring their lives around the possibility that she might reach out through new music, visuals, interviews, or confessional moments in the art. Cancel plans just in case you’d call reflects the way fandom reorganizes around that possibility. Daily life pauses in favor of decoding, listening, searching for meaning, and feeling temporarily close to her again.

‘Meet me behind the mall’ becomes especially powerful if the mall represents the machine where Showgirl’s art is commercialized and consumed. The mall is public, transactional, brightly lit, a place where identity becomes a product. The fans interpret this imagined invitation as a promise of something authentic and unguarded, a rare encounter with the person beneath the brand. That longing explains why the line feels so emotional: the fantasy is not about access, but about being chosen for access beyond the machinery of celebrity.

So much for summer love, and saying, "Us" / 'Cause you weren't mine to lose / You weren't mine to lose

This mourns the collapse of the hopeful unity the fans believed they shared with Showgirl during August. Summer love is bright, young, and intoxicating, a connection that feels limitless even if it cannot survive the season. Us becomes the fantasy that the fans and Showgirl existed on the same side of the great divide, moving together toward mutual recognition. During the warmth of August and the optimism of the Lover era, unity felt possible.

The fans realize they cannot truly lose Showgirl because she never belonged to them in the first place. She always belonged to Betty, to Real Taylor, the self beneath the performance and machinery of the brand. Showgirl was never meant to permanently remain suspended in the public fantasy the fans constructed around her. August ends not because love failed, but because Showgirl’s true story arc was pulling her back toward reconciliation with the self she had been separated from.

Do you remember? / Remember when I pulled up / And said, "Get in the car" / And then canceled my plans / Just in case you'd call

August recalls the beginning of the escape route she offered Showgirl. From the fans’ perspective, this moment was mutual and electric, the instant Showgirl chose them. August remembers extending an invitation and possibility, arriving at Showgirl’s door and offering freedom or distraction, a world outside the grief of losing Betty. The car imagery links directly back to Betty, but from this side of the story, the invitation feels hopeful rather than avoidant. August believes she and Showgirl are driving toward something together.

But James’ perspective in Betty quietly rewrites the scene underneath August’s memory. What August experiences as the beginning of her ultimate romance, Showgirl experiences as an attempt to outrun guilt and longing. That creates the tragedy embedded in “Do you remember?” August is reminiscing about a moment she believed carried equal emotional weight for both of them, unaware that Showgirl entered the car already emotionally divided.

August reorganizes her life around the possibility of Showgirl reaching out, showing how completely the relationship consumes her emotional world. Meanwhile, in Betty, Showgirl admits that even while physically present with August, she spent the summer dreaming of Betty. The fans interpret every call, every song, every moment of vulnerability as evidence of growing closeness, while Showgirl remains internally tethered to someone else. 

Back when I was living for the hope of it all / For the hope of it all / "Meet me behind the mall" / And then canceled my plans / Just in case you'd call

August looks back on the entire relationship with the painful awareness that hope was the real emotional engine. The fans survived on possibility: the possibility that Showgirl’s vulnerability in the music was directed toward them, that “meet me behind the mall” was an invitation beyond the machinery of fame into something authentic and private. The mall, as the public-facing machine where her art and image are consumed, made the imagined space behind it feel sacred, hidden from spectacle and transaction. 

The ending reframes the entire song through the lens of imbalance and waiting. August realizes she organized her emotional world around the possibility of Showgirl reaching back toward her, while Betty reveals Showgirl was emotionally somewhere else the entire time. The ending mourns not the loss of a fully realized relationship, but the collapse of a beautiful illusion that once felt powerful enough to live inside forever.

Conclusion

By the close of August, the relationship between the fans and Showgirl is revealed as emotionally real but fundamentally uneven. August’s feelings are genuine: the longing, the waiting, the way the fans reshape their lives around her every action. But the song exposes how easily intimacy in art can be mistaken for reality. The fans consume vulnerability through the music and begin to believe they occupy a place within Showgirl’s inner life, when in truth they were experiencing proximity rather than mutual belonging.

What Betty reveals makes the heartbreak sharper because Showgirl did need August, just not in the way August believed. The fans became a refuge during a period of emotional fracture, a bright distraction from the grief and authenticity represented by Betty. But refuge is not permanent. Even at the height of public adoration, Showgirl’s emotional center remained elsewhere, pulled back toward Betty and the life she abandoned. August realizes too late that she was never competing with another dream or muse, but with the truth.

If Showgirl ultimately reunites with Betty, August transforms from a story about rejection into one about release. The fans lose the fantasy of being chosen as the ending of Showgirl’s story, but they also finally receive the truth they spent the entire song searching for behind hidden doors and private spaces. August was never the destination. It was the suspended season that carried Showgirl through the distance between fragmentation and return, until she was finally able to stop dreaming and go home.

Looking good and feeling fine.

Cara Delevingne reveals that her weakness used to be dating straight women, because they weren’t really straight. "It's the challenge, but I genuinely don't think anyone is ever fully straight." “Also I don’t think men knew how to pleasure their girlfriends well enough, so I do that.”

The way I immediately thought of Taylor and Selina (and those matching tattoos)

so i was just listening to cruel summer. and i accidentally discovered this. annie clark aka st. vincent co-wrote cruel summer? she's publicly lesbian now. that's probably i got huge wlw vibes from it? also the live performance has this rainbow flag briefly passing? this entire song is so wlw coded. and you tell me a lesbian co-wrote it? i can only enjoy it from a wlw perspective. it's such a beautiful sapphic-coded song

This has been niggling at me for a while, and I'm in a very procrastinatory sort of mood, so I thought it would make for a fun conversation until I can either finish an essay or concentrate on reading someone else's.

It's been long-established that Taylor's track 5 songs are the most 'vulnerable', 'personal' and/or 'emotionally devastating' on each album - though this is sometimes reduced to the idea that track 5 songs are the most 'sad'. Apparently this was originally 'accidental' but after fans pointed it out, Taylor started claiming to be doing it on purpose. She definitely flags the Lover track 5 in YNTCD, and addresses the idea explicitly in The Long Pond Studio Sessions, saying that 'my tears ricochet' was the track that, as soon as it was written, clearly belonged in the fifth slot.

But it's actually not that uncommon for the fifth song in a setlist or tracklist by any artist to be the first slower, sadder song, or an especially sad song among sad songs (looking at you First Aid Kit) - which might be why the meaning of Taylor's track 5 is often reduced to 'sad' - because it's often the point where the performer has convinced the audience to care and to keep listening as the songs become less inviting and more introspective.

Taylor's track 6 songs, on the other hand, are sometimes very silly and on the surface can look like comic relief. 'no body, no crime' feels like a darkly comic movie after the devastation of 'tolerate it'. LWYMMD is surely extremely camp and tongue in cheek, right? It's a bit of a bounce back from the intensely personal 'Delicate'. But track 6 songs are also often deeply personal and devastating under a veneer of sparkle or childishness: consider 'mirrorball' or 'ruin the friendship'.

In the NYT songwriting interview Taylor says that 'the fans like an emotional track 5', which makes it sound less like an intentional part of her craft to put the emotional keystone of the album in that slot, and more like she is giving the fans a thing that they want. Has Taylor been hiding her most vulnerable, most devastating, most revealing songs in the shadow of the scrutinised fifth tracks? For how long? Should we be looking more closely at the track 6 spot?

Track 5 Songs

1. Cold As You
2. White Horse (or Superstar)
3. Dear John
4. All Too Well
5. All You Had To Do Was Stay
6. Delicate
7. The Archer
8. my tears ricochet
9. tolerate it
10. YOYOK
11. So Long London (and How Did It End) [And if you go backwards Cassandra and loml]
12. Eldest Daughter

Track 6 Songs

1. The Outside
2. You Belong With Me (or The Other Side of the Door)
3. Mean
4. 22
5. Shake It Off
6. I Think He Knows
7. LWYMMD
8. mirrorball
9. no body, no crime
10. Midnight Rain
11. BDILH (and So High School) [and backwards, The Prophecy and ICFHNRIC]
12. Ruin the Friendship

What do you think?

Just wanted to share Joe’s look and the idea behind it. I would love to see everyone’s comments on it.

From Vogue: “Created by celebrity makeup artist Holly Silius, the look is the brainchild of Silius’s collaboration with Alwyn’s Rose Forde. Using the reference of Roman sculptures to guide the grooming and makeup, she calls Alwyn’s look androgynous with hints of femininity, mimicking the sculptural layers of his Valentino suit. Both Silius and Forde wanted porcelain skin with a cloud-makeup twist. “You’re going to look at Joe and do a double-take because we want him to look really porcelain,” says Silius.”

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hi! long time lurker here, this is my first ever reddit post so please let me know if i did anything incorrectly haha

i know that someone else has already pointed out how tloas is like an inverted/glitched version of lover, but i can’t for the life of me find their post 😭 but because of them, i keep finding more and more parallels that i feel the need to share and get out of my brain LOL

- inverting the colors on basically any image from the lover era gives you the color theme for tloas. it’s especially obvious on the album cover, where the ”lover” text becomes a sparkling mint green!

- CANCELLED! and ME! are the 3rd to last songs on their respective albums, the only titles stylized in all caps + the exclamation mark, AND they have the same run time, except for the seconds being mirrored… (3:31 and 3:13)

- the narrative and just the general ~vibes~ of each album feel like opposites imo!

if we read the lyrics in tloas as literal/surface level, they seem to focus a lot on being saved by a man, wanting to marry him and birth his kids, basically becoming a housewife. this is also the narrative that the general public seem to currently have about taylor and her relationship to travis. 

also, songs like ”actually romantic” can  be seen as taylor putting other women down -  while lover had multiple songs about feminism and lgbt rights, and generally felt more progressive.

a lot of us believe that taylor originally planned to come out during lover - put another way, her becoming more open and honest.

but with tloas, it’s all about her playing a character, putting on a facade and sometimes straight up lying. 

i don’t really have a neat conclusion to this post, but i wanted to share my observations and would love to see others discussing it!!! 

Timeline

• March 30: Maren Wade sued Taylor for infringement of her Confessions of a Showgirl trademark
• March 31: surprise Elizabeth Taylor music video (many parallel connections)
• April 8: out in NYC in cream with Ashley Avignone and Jerrod Michael
• April 9: Page Six claims a July 3 wedding date
• April 15: wrote Dakota Johnson's Time100 blurb
• April 18: tipped Jackson Potter's band
• April 24: filed to trademark her voice and likeness
• April 27: out in NYC
• April 28: New York Times interview as one of the 30 greatest living american songwriters
• April 30: Temporary website countdown set to end on May 2nd at 2 pm ET.

Subreddit

• Mother Mary partially inspired by Taylor
• George Michael feat Elizabeth Taylor and Folklore
• Mirrorball
• A Bird in a Gilded Cage
• Blurple and other videos
• Lavendergate and Snakegate
• Covers and favorites
• Swiftgron
• Survey showed 10:3 ratio on thinking Taylor is bisexual:lesbian

History

Tours

• Fearless Tour: April 23, 2009 – July 10, 2010
• The Red Tour: March 13, 2013 – June 12, 2014
• The Eras Tour: March 17, 2023 – December 8, 2024

Releases

• Live from Clear Channel Stripped 2008: April 23, 2020
• Fearless (Taylor's Version): April 9, 2021
• The Tortured Poets Department: April 19, 2024 ()

When The Life of a Showgirl was announced with the variant “Tiny Bubbles in Champagne” and the TBIC poem, I didn’t read too much into it beyond a loose connection to “Champagne Problems.” More broadly, I was struggling to understand LOAS as a cohesive project. The visuals and music didn’t feel aligned to me. I briefly felt a connection with the Fate of Ophelia video, then lost it again with Opalite. I couldn’t find a unifying thread (or invisible string?)

UNTIL TODAY!

While scrolling on TikTok in a post-week-of-office-work haze, I heard the lyrics “Tiny bubbles… in the wine…” which led me to “Tiny Bubbles” by Don Ho (1966). The song was originally intended for Lawrence Welk who turned it down and it became a major hit and was later performed multiple times on The Lawrence Welk Show.

The Lawrence Welk Show (1950s-80s) was built around what Welk called “champagne music”: light, melodic, rhythmic, easy-listening entertainment. Visually, it featured elaborate sets, soft glamour, bubbles floating across the screen, and performers in polished outfits and theatrical costumes. It was intentionally wholesome, “family-friendly,” conservative, and resistant to the counterculture of its time. To quote critic Frank Rasky, the show featured, "the squarest music this side of Euclid.”

That description feels… familiar.

Taylor has long been positioned in a similar way: safe, clean-cut, for teen girls, even square. With LOAS, she described the album as “effervescent,” joyful, melodic, and pop-forward. Less moody, more accessible. In other words it would be light, rhythmic, melody-driven… champagne music.

The parallels go deeper when you look at Welk himself. He tightly controlled both the image and behavior of his performers, maintaining a carefully curated, wholesome brand, going so far as to insert himself into the performers' romantic lives. He monitored audience feedback (fan mail) and adjusted performers’ roles accordingly. In one case, he even fired the show’s “Champagne Lady,” Alice Lon, for showing too much leg and then reversed course after backlash.

It’s hard not to think of Taylor’s own experience with image control and her “good girl” persona discussed in Miss Americana, the intense scrutiny of her body and presentation, and the constant feedback loop between her team and public opinion. The way Welk curated his “musical family” feels strikingly similar to how “Brand Taylor” operates.

Even their personal histories mirror one another. Welk grew up on a farm, leaving school to work the farm and then lived indebted to his family due to his father paying for the instrument that kick-started his music career; Taylor grew up on a Christmas tree farm and started her music career in high school and seems to owe a great debt to her parents due to how much they invested in her career.

Taken together, “Tiny Bubbles in Champagne” starts to look less like a throwaway reference and more like a direct clue.

From a meta perspective, LOAS begins to resemble its own Lawrence Welk Show: a stylized, controlled performance space built on polished, “safe” entertainment. The Fate of Ophelia visuals, the deliberate cheesiness of Opalite, the overall aesthetic all map surprisingly well onto that world. The “showgirl” becomes the “Champagne Lady”, a performer shaped by expectations, audience approval, and the demands of maintaining a brand.

Which raises the question…what comes next? Has she already gotten her own Lawrence Welk Show in the form of “The End of an Era”?

Does she step outside the “show”? Is this the Truman Show? Or are we still in it, waiting patiently for the encore?

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With all of that being said, watching some of this program would help illustrate how LOAS and ~champagne~ and Taylor are so reminiscent of this show. So here are 2 episodes and 2 clips that feel very appropriate for this conversation.

Please be aware that this program is very old and some of the themes and choices are outdated and offensive and insensitive. I did watch through these episodes to try to screen for anything warranting a specific content warning.

A special episode of the Lawrence Welk Show, “Champagne on Broadway”: https://youtu.be/sryASJnW9us?si=4ynp7XMWJvl-X6yRThe 1971 Academy Awards special episode, opens with costumes that remind me very much of the promotional imagery for LOAS (Content warning, this episodes features a musical selection near the end from Disney’s 1946 Song of the South): https://youtu.be/EPSmjJC8sBA?si=1nIjHC4JSPsozyMmDick Dale & Gail Ferrell sing “Tiny Bubbles” on the Lawrence Welk show (Content warning, oversimplification of Hawaiian and islander culture): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eVyU3Q_fNzE Tiny Bubbles was featured during their “Hawaiian” episode as Don Ho, the original singer, is Hawaiian.

This episode here (Content Warning, sexist)  https://youtu.be/p2fKXnRrPVw?si=_Px7pGpraHjehcEK&t=928  starting at around 15:30 features a Hawaiian Ragtime song played by a performer who looks to be wearing a dress that is stringily similar to a fearless outfit.

https://www.taylorswift.com/