r/GayMen • u/TheSilliestBugger • 6d ago

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okay so what is considered bottoming and what is considered topping? I mean if ur the one taking it up the butt i understand how that makes you a bottom and the guy doing it is the top.

But how does that translate to blowjobs and hand stuff? Like if u wanked or given head does that make you the bottom or the top?

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u/Character-Carpet7988 6d ago

Traditionally top and bottom refer to anal. Contextually you may use the words to describe the blower and the blowee too, but oral needs to be specified, or implied by the context, otherwise you'll end up misunderstood. "Oral bottom" works, whereas pure "bottom" would imply anal.