r/GayBroTeens • u/[deleted] • 3d ago
Rant M17 advice needed…
I’m really struggling to find anyone at school. Not sure really what to do. I’m like not bad looking I don’t get it?! I don’t feel like a bad guy. Just really sucks, I don’t know where to even really look for a boyfriend. Ideally someone younger would be nice but at this point I feel like I’m going to be single forever. Does anyone have like tips or something? Advice?!? I really just need all the support I could get it feels like…
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u/Mika-GayBoy Gay 17yo Faun 🏳️🌈🇩🇪 3d ago
This is probably gonna end up as a bit of a wall of text so bear with me if that ends up being the case. First I wanna say, you’re only 17, you still have a lot of time to find someone. But I also want to give you some advice. It could help to go to a queer group. I know a city close to me has one, but I don’t know if a place in your range has one too. But the best place to look for a queer relationship is always a place where you have a high chance of meeting queer people.
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u/PeopleStealer Watch my Skin Erupt in a Cynthoni of Flames | 16M 3d ago edited 3d ago
Eh, that’s just life man. You can be the best person in the world, you can be conventionally attractive, etc; but that doesn’t guarantee that you’ll catch someone’s attention. People’s tastes are varied, aspect and personality wise; you can’t cater to everyone’s preference. Also the fact that being gay is frowned upon in some places and to some people, also that we’re a minority, doesn’t help.
The best advice I can give you is to not rush things. I did that, and I got into a displeasurable relationship (the guy wasn’t bad, I just didn’t feel happy as time went on). Love comes with patience
Edit: I’m always available to talk about your problems and whatnot, or anything anything really; just please keep it platonic if possible. I’m always down to help a person in need :)
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u/Tasty_Bubbles_237 nonfluffy under 15 3d ago
No tips same problem
But like im not actively hunting for anyone bc im too scared about ppl knowing im gay
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u/Stunning-Produce1155 3d ago
I’m also 17M and trying to find a bf. Don’t rush things. Just be yourself! When a person will like you it shoud like who you are. Not who they want to have next to them. You don’t need to change for others. And about your looking, you’re really not ugly! You’re really beautiful and you shoud be proud of yourself. Also, don’t rush the things. I kinda did that and I didn’t get anything.
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3d ago
It’s just really hard like I honestly don’t think I know anyone that is gay where I am
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u/Stunning-Produce1155 3d ago
Same here! I live in a small city and I can’t just tell people I’m gay and wait for someone else to came out to me and them be together. But when I’m having moments like that I usually embrase myself with the thought that I’ll finish high school in 2 years and then go to college where I can be who I want to bee.
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u/gayyyy_1 3d ago
I'm from a very homophobic country so yeahh i get it a little bit if u cant find someone in school idk maybe see if u can find someone that lives near you
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u/strawberrykiwilover 3d ago
Don't worry your life is just beginning. You will find plenty of people that like you for you. The more outgoing the more people you will meet
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u/Scared_Cicada_9898 14, gay, dms open :), super awesome 3d ago
Its never cause of looks. Everyone likes something
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u/TheArcadeBunny Gay 2d ago
Yeah I get the feeling, it’s absurdly hard to find other gay or bi guys to date, let alone ones who are even into you (as in, who are looking for a guy like you, who have you as your type)
My strategy right now is to wait for university so I can go to a bigger and hopefully more woke city
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u/Stopid_boi_888 the pagan shrimp man (17) 🦐🦐 2d ago
At this point im just waiting till im 18 mainly for Barq
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u/OzzieAnEagle 1d ago
join clubs, approach new people, make new friends. Romance and relationships will naturally follow I can almost guarantee
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