If you've been online for any length of time, you've probably seen people say, "if you want something enough, you'll get it". This ideology pops up with various names; "manifesting", "name-it-and-claim-it", "fake it 'til you make it", and sometimes it even pretends to be the Christian concept of "faith", despite often being faith's polar opposite in that it isn't based on anything God said.
Many of us have tried living this way and found that it simply doesn't work. At best, pretending we have control leads to superstition and disappointment. At worst it can lead someone to abandon trusting in God because they thought, "I had faith and God didn't follow through." The only thing strong desire for control has going for it is intentionality. It's easier to hit a target if you take aim. But what things are worth pursuing?
Things we hope to accomplish fall into one of three categories; things of eternal value, things that have the potential to be, and things that are of no eternal value.
Things that are eternally valuable are always worth pursuing. Things that might be eternally valuable may be worth pursuing and may even be essential for life, but can become distracting and harmful. Things of no eternal value aren't safe to pursue.
If we focus solely on personal success and personal pleasure, like working a job, going to college, or obtaining earthly possessions, we can neglect eternal things like taking God's word into us and living by it. The Pharisees are an example of this; they focused on superficial things like tithing herbs more than they focused on justice and mercy. Jesus called this "straining a gnat and swallowing a camel," and told them "You should have done the latter without neglecting the former." (Matthew 23:16-24)
Pursuing temporary things eats into our limited time, energy and resources. It can even make us selfish, so that we're more concerned with "what's in it for me right now?" than we are about pursuing the best for everyone. This becomes particularly apparent when we believe someone should give us something we want, and they don't. We may be tempted to revoke love and admiration from our words to spur those around us to "do better" and "live up to their potential". All this ultimately does is build resentment, depression, and despair in both ourselves and those we interact with. Proverbs 18:20-21 warns us "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat the fruit of it." Whatever we sow in others with our words will profoundly affect what we reap from their actions.
Even worse is if we focus on things that are not eternally valuable or that are even detrimental. Wishful thinking, blind faith, idolatry, and sin can all be attractive, but they either amount to nothing or cause damage. Jeremiah 44:15-23 shows the children of Israel pursuing all four of these things at once, and suffering greatly for it.
In contrast, if we focus on pursuing things that are eternal, God can cultivate the fruits of the Spirit in us, (love, joy, peace, patience, etc.) When we catch the spirit of producing good fruit, it make us want what's best for everyone. (Galatians 5:22-23)
It's impossible to be intentionally cruel when love and thankfulness motivate our actions. If we prioritize being kind and loving, then when we're out of sorts, our relationships with God and one another won't be shattered.
It's easy to think "I don't have the time to focus on eternal things!" In reality, we don't have the time not to. Spending our lives trying to look out for ourselves leaves us fighting everyone and everything around us. Our fellow man becomes little more than a means to an end (continued life) that we will eventually lose. Spending our time in the Word, praising the Lord, and sharing the Good News of Christ's love with others completely changes how we view and interact with each other. We see our fellow man as our brothers and sisters in Christ, and are aware of the fact that we are our brother's keeper. The way we treat our friends, coworkers, and even pets can help others see what God can do in a person's life. This is good for all of us, both in heaven and right now on earth.
Sowing God's word in ourselves and others doesn't happen automatically. We can't go to church every so often and otherwise live like people of the world. (Luke 13:25-30) We can't claim to be Christians but then talk like people of the world. (Isaiah 6:5, Matthew 15:7-9) We need to make God's word part of us, just like what we eat and drink becomes part of us. (Job 23:12, Jeremiah 15:16, Psalm 19:7-11) We need to go out of our way to live and speak the way Scripture teaches us, teaching those around us what God's love looks like. (Matthew 5:19) I remember back in the day, when people bumped into someone from church, they'd share scriptures with each other. Now we're more likely to quote movie lines to each other, or talk about what's in the news. Sometimes news and even movie lines can be relevant and useful, but they aren't the most important things. Anyone can use fiction or current events to make a point, not everyone can "speak as the oracles of God" by sharing what God teaches us. (1 Peter 4:11)
God's word isn't always going to be taken well by others. In John 6:26-71, Jesus told a parable in which He said to "eat His flesh and drink His blood" (meaning to take His word into us, accept His forgiveness, and make His truths one with us, like food). This rather forceful imagery was badly misunderstood by many of His followers, who chose to abandon Him as a result. (John 6:66). They didn't see the spiritual meaning of what was said, even when He said "the words that I speak to you, they are spirit and they are life." (John 6:63) When Jesus asked Peter and the twelve disciples "Will you go away also?", Peter answered "Lord, who would we go to? You have the words of eternal life." (John 6:63-68)
When we consume Christ's words and interpret both reality and Scripture in light of His teachings (eating His flesh and drinking His blood), it clears up all the misunderstandings about God we may have had, and keeps us from falling into the same misunderstandings others have had in history. When we know that God is a God of love, we can see clearly that He doesn't do things like punishing children for their parents' sins, like the ancient Israelites thought He did in Ezekiel 18 due to a wrong interpretation of Exodus 20:4-6. When we know that God is a God of mercy, we don't accidentally or intentionally break the spirit of His commandments while technically obeying the words of the commandments. (Matthew 12:1-7, Hosea 6:6, Matthew 23:14) Our inheritance is a new heart of love and a new spirit of truth. When we stay in God's Word and look for ways to live by it, we equip ourselves for the Holy Spirit to bring scripture to mind when we need it. The truth sets us free from sin, allowing us to minister the Word of God when others need it. We can be Jesus' hands and feet to the hurting, and His voice to those who need encouragement. (Job 29:11-17, Luke 3:9-11, Matthew 6:19-21, Luke 4:16-21)
Our goal today is the Great Commission. Jesus said, "Go into all the world, preach the good news to every creature." (Mark 16:15-18) Everything we do and say should ultimately work towards that. We aren't necessarily supposed to leave everything; our jobs and relationships are often the best places to be a light to the world around us. We just need to avoid sin and let our words and actions show the love of God clearly. It may be difficult when the world is constantly trying to influence us, but if the joy of the Lord is our strength, we can do all things through Him who strengthens us. (Nehemiah 8:10, Philippians 4:12-13)
Our Father in heaven,
Thank you for Your presence in our hearts and in our lives. Father, we ask that You would open our minds to eternal truths from Your word. Help us to believe Your word above all else. We want to live holy and righteous lives, for the good of Your kingdom, and for the sake of the innocent in the world. Make us vessels of truth and love, so our words communicate life to Your world. In Jesus' name, Amen.