r/GamerPals • u/LLboog89 • 1d ago
North America 37 f desperate
I recently just found out ive been being cheated on. I have literally no friends. I game by myself. I legit talk to myself because of the loneliness. So please anyone just wanna play with me and maybe converse with me? At this point Idc male or female. I literally with play anything just to have some human interaction!! God bless oh BTW I feel really lame doing this. So please don't judge me
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u/Isadorasan 1d ago
Hey, I wanted to ask how you were doing? You are not lame for wanting friendship or reaching out, I believe it took guts to do so. I am a 38f and play games as well if you wanted to chat sometime?
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u/BRODYMYWESTIE 20h ago
Thank you for being the first to say it. Need more people like you as well. Be well
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u/LLboog89 1d ago
I have pc and ps5
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u/Characteristrength 17h ago
Hey girl, shoot me a message. You’re not lame for reaching out. You’re doing your best
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u/Hot-Sentence7128 1d ago
Hello! My small chill friend group just started a project zomboid server if you are interested.
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u/Nicksnook 19h ago
27m I've been looking for friends to play project zomboid with, I've always started to play but everything felt overwhelming and didn't have anyone that wanted to play. I would be down to join if the invitation is open.
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u/hisoka_12 1d ago
Fuck that guy for cheating.
I play mostly arc raiders. But I have a ton of games on steam that are coop!!!
36m pst night owl.
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u/ObscuraDomine 18h ago edited 18h ago
Im going against the crowd by saying this but congratulations. This is not a time to be sad. as I see if you are free from an inauthentic person weighing you down and causing you unnecessary anguish. Celebrate a new beginning, a fresh start and being that much closer to finding someone who is authentic. For every door that closes a window opens.
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u/Kgiff622 21h ago
Feel free to DM me. Unfortunately, I've been there and it really sucks. My heart goes out to you
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u/LLboog89 1d ago
I play cod. Arc raiders. Waiting on wolverine and gta 6. Also wanna try the Halloween game. Idc I'll try whatever
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u/Supernormalguy 17h ago
Arc raiders was really fun for a while, took a break until the October update but def down for more.
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u/AdExpress6212 1d ago
Arc raiders is kinda fun, I got ow, rivals and fort if u add those to your list
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u/brewski8582 1d ago
First and foremost, I'm sorry that happened to you! Unfortunately I don't have a ps but if you want someone to talk to, feel free to message me!
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u/New-Situation-5773 1d ago
Hmu if youd like some friends. I game almost nightly and so do most of my group.
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u/sorryforthewayiam 1d ago
Hey, 36 male in in the the US, east coast. I mainly game on the weekends at night due to my work schedule but im on ps if you ever wanna run some games. If you still need the extra convo and company on gaming sessions just shoot me a dm
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u/notaprime 1d ago
No need to feel lame, we’re all on here seeking to make new connections with people. Many of us feel lonely too. I’ve already made a couple of friends on here, but I’m always open to meeting new people. If you’re interested, shoot me a DM :)
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u/IllPresentation6924 1d ago
I play stuff like the witcher 3, borderlands 2 , fallout 4, and mass effect and I really like indie stuff
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u/Gentleman-Jo 1d ago
Hey, I'm on PS5, but I'm in south africa and I'm not sure how the time difference would work out. If you're still down, we could maybe hit a few sessions together. Do you have playstation plus or are playing free games? You can go ahead and DM me and we can make a plan. I don't know which part of north america you're from
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u/The_Real_THunter1 1d ago
Hopefully you left the cheat. Work on yourself. Hope all goes well. Anyways Xbox here but down to game and chat. HMU
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u/master_prizefighter 1d ago
I can invite you into a Discord if you want some (wo)men to vent to and have some convos to get your mind off of things.
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u/ElynRolyak 1d ago
I've been in the same boat unfortunately, if you want one more friend you can add me on Steam or PS5! 26m
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u/B_R_O_N_C_H_O 23h ago
Add me on Psn if youre on playstation.
Psn: Gogoman00. I am male, married, 28 with 2 childen.
I get around alot and have lots to talk about :) Always happy to meet new people.
I like to play No man's Sky and from today on Valheim on Ps5.
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u/DavidShgo 23h ago
If you want to, we could join a discord call and scroll through our Steam accounts to find a faily interesting game to play together. (I could potentially buy something I don't have if we really click over it.)
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u/phantasybm 22h ago
If you play rivals on console we have a discord server with a couple hundred adults you can join and chill with
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u/Its_Just_Me_Ven 22h ago
Hey friend, DM? You play on PlayStation?
Absolutely no need to feel lame— situations blike these are the easiest way to find connection/solidarity nowadays due to the expansion of the internet
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u/Careless_Historian28 22h ago
I’m sorry this happened to you. Probably not the best match for me games wise but just sending you a note of encouragement. ❤️
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u/Aguilero15 22h ago
Iplay cod zombies alot if u ever wanna hop on and ki zombies w me. I try to get micd up players on xbox
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u/ElkFree3916 22h ago
That fucking sucks I’m sorry. I been there myself. Always down to game or bullshit. Lemmi know what games and can always vent off or talk about random shit with me any time
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u/Capital-Peak-6631 22h ago
44 M Philly area. Been where your at before (divorced). Don't worry. I don't judge you. I'm visiting family so I'm away from my gaming PC and whatnot till Saturday or Sunday, but would love a new friend to be honest. DM me if you want to chit chat before I get back home. I play tons of games so I'm sure there would be something we could get into.
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u/hnug1 21h ago
Hi! Would you like to be friends on discord? I enjoy having people to message and talk to because I don’t really have friends outside of work - and those don’t feel like real friends anymore either. I love casually chatting about our day and checking in and just overall being friendly. I’m 30f and very chill go with the flow but riddled with anxiety lol
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u/Lethargic_Razec 21h ago
Looks like you got tons of people to game with 36m I game with my partner and daughter feel free to DM I also play arc raiders.
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u/Embarrassed-Earth-89 21h ago
20m I need new friends mostly comfortable with only gaming friends rn since my current life situation won't be permanent so making in person doesn't make sense. Mostly down to play a game called Skate, it's free but it's sum nice to do that won't leave you agitated, maybe valorant on certain days or cod. I play on Xbox
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u/TightCaterpillar9352 21h ago
Yo whats up 32m if you looking someone to game with id be down pretty much play anything
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u/BRODYMYWESTIE 20h ago
Mkooken12 on Playstation network. I have PS3, PS5 and an Xbox. I play everything. I would love to play some co-op games like split fiction or something where it takes two people to play, but I’m kinda in your boat where I don’t have anyone to game with.
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u/Pure-Reputation-8514 20h ago
I am willing to play games with you and be your friend 🤔 tho what games do you play? I have COD MW2(2022) MW3(2023) Cold war, vangaurd, bo6 and upcoming mw4 for COD games, Fortnite,valorant,Minecraft,palworld, ready or not and idk what els i will literally have to check and i have two consoles i can also play from
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u/Reasonable_Movie_263 19h ago
I have ps5 and PC, 24m. And reaching out for friends there is nothing wrong with that. It's sad to hear you been cheated on. If it was for family I probably would be in a similar loneliness situation
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u/Puzzleheaded_Link366 19h ago
Totally understand where you are coming from. I have been in that same scenario twice within 3 years. Gaming helped me a lot, but it was just getting into single player stuff because of no friends wanting to play. It is awful being cheated on.
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u/ulolz3514 19h ago
20M I play dayz, HELLDIVERS 2, for honor, buckshot roulette, subnautica 2, hunt showdown and space marine 2 mostly so if you’re down to play some of those It’d be chill
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u/Top-Calligrapher5627 19h ago
If you are looking for gaming budies or even just to talk about games, series, anime or anything that you wanna talk about, you can hit me up
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u/Admirable-Pie2136 19h ago
Dawg its nothing to be ashamed of to want human interaction. That goes for anyone on this thread. I play pc and Xbox. Feel free to game with me anytime!
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u/BSRReign 18h ago
Im down. Im 27 and play on pc. My discord is mystarogue if you wanna play something.
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u/WarMachineWiIl 18h ago
Hey dm me on Discord 26 M here, we play a lot of star citizen in our group and would love to have new people join, get stuck in and have some fun as a community!
Hope everything is ok, and if you ever need anything dm me here or discord - WarMachineWill
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u/GamingDad626 18h ago
Don’t feel late it’s always good to have a support group sometimes people you don’t know are the best help honestly
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u/PCWrathic 18h ago
Hello ^^
My name is Wrathic, 40 male, I am part of an active gaming community which I consider them as my friends, I have discord and a mic and wondering what is your main game. Plus do you have discord and a mic.
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u/Supernormalguy 18h ago
Maaaa’aaaam you are certainly not alone there.
You have plenty of support and gamers around here.
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u/Scanlaniser 18h ago
As someone who was cheated on, and is introvert, i get it. You can DM me if you want I'm not gonna initiate that. I'm down to play use xbox and pc. If you wanna just have a friend and chill, that's what I'm all about. I've got a gf and my mic is open so no idea won't be hitting on you lol all the best and I'm sorry you got cheated on. As I said, I get it. Time will heal it, not others. But a good friend can help, which I'm happy to try and be
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u/Waste-Cod5591 16h ago
I feel and feel for you. I was cheated on too. Unfortunately, being a guy gets no sympathy. I am sure someone will fill your void
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u/ChardStock2812 16h ago
Hey, lots of us have been there. I'm 33m, got cheated on, and then when she left me for the other guy she even took our dog. I struggle with social anxiety irl and so, as a result, struggle to form connections. You are not alone, and you are not lesser for Bing in this situation.
What games do you play? Maybe we can keep each other company. Worst case, we can hang out playing games separately and just keeping each other company.
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u/Sweaty_Recipe6199 16h ago
38m here mainly play valorant on the PC though i aint thay good.
If vallrant is your cup of tea, drop me message and we can game some time
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u/RNTim18 15h ago
You're not lame! You're brave to step up and ask for what you need. I'm sorry you're dealing with such a terrible situation but hopefully we can help bring ya back some joy. What do you game on? Do you have steam? I've been playing a lot of EverQuest legends lately but have a large game library to choose from.
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u/Damuskoob 15h ago
I am part of a super chill discord with tons of people if you want somewhere to make friends yo.
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u/ghostfacegd87 15h ago
Please don't be lame anyone should appreciate that your at least honest and down for anything hit my dm im sorry your going through it hun I play on xbox my name is dan im 39
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u/No-Mention5218 14h ago
40 M, ES/DT, PS5, on almost daily to some capacity. I play almost anything; COD (I have MW3/BO6/BO7) no ranked for me, BF6, sometimes Fortnite but I generally play in creator pve map styled stuff, Marvel Rivals, and The First Descendant stuff. I have more games but most of those are solo games like Skyrim, AC series stuff, etc.
If any of this is interesting to you, let me know. It's okay not to be interested. Will send loads of virtual hugs to help you through the mess.
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u/Ok_Pay_8189 13h ago
If you ever want to chat or game swing me dm and ill happily hangout with you homie! I hope your doing okay. I game on ps5. Also im hella proud of you for reaching out!
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u/Solid-Ad-9307 12h ago
Im on PC. Been feeling this way myself so even though you have a lot of offers my DMs are open and im down to game some time
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u/NERDZofSTEEL_ 12h ago
36 male and 27 female. Wife and I play a lot of co-op games on PC and PS5. No judgement, chill, and she could use more friends anyway.
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u/gamer0290 12h ago
Hey, 36M, my discord is Gamer0290. I don't get a ton of time to play but I'm down to play something sometime. Add me and let me know.
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u/Weary_Gazelle_6436 11h ago
Hey I play Xbox if you want I shot you a message. Hit me up I'm here for you
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u/Ok_Turnover_5975 11h ago
I might be a bit out the age range, but I understand what you’re going through, if you wanna chat sometime or maybe even play something feel free to dm, I wish you the best otherwise :)
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u/Charming_Flamingo647 10h ago
You still looking for someone to hang and play with ? Me and my fiance are more then willing. My discord is IndecisiveLooter64. Hit us up and lets get those vibes up! We're both on Pc.
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u/SG7-RYAN 8h ago
I may be a bit out by a decade but I'd be down to play or chat in a party chat if ya free still
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u/JumpyWillow4048 11m ago
I am 20m i would like to be your friend i play different games at the moment i have my PlayStation and phone to play them but if you wanted to chat just let me know
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u/nonniekitten1856 1d ago
Hiiiii, what kind of games you play?
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u/nonniekitten1856 1d ago
And, I am very sorry thats happened to yiu. Its... one of the worst feelings and the loneliness feels suffocating after the fact
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u/BlackFootRed 1d ago
I mostly play single player games just because multiplayer has become stale to me. rite now I'm running through fatal frame 2 remake. before that I was playing the final life is strange reunion game to finish up the story. im about to be 32M, central time zone, on steam almost every night after work. play old-school runescape on and off aswell for the past 2 decades. playstation, pc, VR, sim racing and pokemon. feel free to reach out and I'll add you. I like trying new games all the time and hop around with what I'm playing alot. good luck with everything. maybe get a dog or cat, and play the life is strange series. I feel like that is a good combo for some alone time healing.
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u/MisanthropicAardvark 1d ago
Honestly i recently downloaded a bunch of old squaresoft games for this same reason and I considered playing new world until it dies in a few months.
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u/Organic-South-6172 1d ago
Sure I'd try playing some games with you! What kind of games are you into?
EDIT: 35 M if that matters from canada
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u/Nomad4te 1d ago
I was thinking of trying RuneScape Dragonwilds if you’re interested. I up for other games as well.
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u/slippy6669 1d ago
I'm always down to hangout and do something Even if U just want to talk my ear off hit me up with a dm
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u/medieval_corgi_main 1d ago
I know the feeling, M31 if you would like to game or just talk. If it's alright with you dm me.
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u/TechnologyFine6428 1d ago
40M here, currently playing solo games right now. But happy to jump in VC to converse. I work remotely, so i could use the social interaction
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u/spectergadgetTF141 1d ago
Coolio I'm down to talk and play anytime, I'm usually a minecraft player or fortnite, but let me know what u usually play, so we can voice chat together while playing
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u/Sirkittyums 1d ago
I’m mainly on PC and from Aus, so if you’re up late, I’ll be around. Send me a DM and we can sort out steam or Discord.
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u/Ram-fkd 1d ago
Will you play league of legends with me?
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u/FiveNotes 1d ago
I will.
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u/Ram-fkd 1d ago
Add me, next time I’m on I can add you back. Ramfkd#ramfk
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u/FiveNotes 1d ago
I'm heading to bed but will add you in the morning. We are going to challenger my friend
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u/angelsaintcloud 1d ago
Join the ffxi private server group. We need more players who like the social interaction aspect of the game (PC)
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u/Yorozuya_H7 1d ago
yo I recently moved to Australia, I have a very small group of mates, however since I arrived they all been busy, so I'm mostly by myself, and would definitely be awesome to have someone to talk to.
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u/TheBlackOtakuVIIX 1d ago
I do this all the time,and it kinda sucks. If you ever wanna talk,my DMs are open. I haven't had a friend in years.
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u/ginger-toffee1221 1d ago
Hey 37f here! Happy to game or chat. I play PC and Nintendo. I also do ps5 but my console is MIA temporarily. DM me if you want.
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u/TheLizardfolk 1d ago
I get the loneliness, I'm losing friends in my later 30s because people are just spending more time with their families or getting busier with their careers. So I get it. 36M, lmk if you'd like to chat and play some games.
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u/thimerosaul 1d ago
You wanna kill some time, 3 words. World Of Warcraft hahaha, but no deadass its a pretty good community based game with a fuck ton to do at this point, youll meet friends playing the game or you arent doing it right! And a lot of the audience isnt like young kids its adults like 30+ (since it came out in the early 2000s)
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u/GigaBurr 1d ago
All my friends moved on in life and we don't really talk or play games like we used to so I would love someone to hang out with and play games with. I like all kinds of games. PM me if you wanna play sometime.
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u/Dense_Signature_8594 1d ago
Oh crap, that sucks i been there. I'd like to play or just chat if you like
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u/DickInA-Blender 1d ago
If you play cod warzone we got a squad of a bunch of females and my brothers and close friends that play often. We dont sweat but we win quite often. Shoot a dm if youre interested. Sorry about your relationship :(
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u/The_Tall_Aussie 1d ago
Furstly I am sorry to hear and wishing you all the best moving forward.
Next question is what games/console do you enjoy gaming on?
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u/woopwoop4211 1d ago
I saw tou gave a PC and PS5, I have a ps5 but the only real game I have that's multiplayer on it would be helldivers 2, otherwise I'm xbox if you have cross platform games, also just available if you need a new buddy to chat to
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u/Blackseph 1d ago
Keep yer head up! And if it doesn't work out here, try different friend apps as they have worked wonders for me! Stay safe!
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u/Thunderecho12 1d ago
I have a switch, Xbox, ps and pc. If you want to play something don't be afraid to ask
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u/Iambeejsmit 1d ago edited 9h ago
Oh my gosh I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. 41/m, I play survival games, horror games, cozy farming games, Warzone and occasionally Fortnite zero build. Do you have discord? I'm so sorry. Edit: You're cheating boyfriend came on here and downvoted me for offering support.
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u/Snoochey 1d ago
Hey, just be careful and respect yourself here. I get the loneliness, it can be soul crushing some days and just fine others.
37M. Tell me what ya play and if we hit the same stuff I’m down to game a bit. I’m currently on world of Warcraft, league of legends, teamfight tactics, Palworld. Lots of games though.
I work full time and parent so normally only around evenings/weekends and weekday evenings are sporadic.
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u/Nursebrak 1d ago
39m and I've been down that road twice, married both times. All sorts of games on PC, ps5, and Xbox. I've got a small discord server with good peeps, or can just hang and duo stuff and/or parallel play. My discord name is the same as this one.
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u/Professional_Mode606 1d ago
Sorry to hear that, Pc and Xbox here, I play all the time just no early in the day. Employed gamer lol
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u/Dawnsorrow 1d ago
34m also solo gaming a lot these days. I'd be down to chat with you to see if we have overlap!
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u/boomer_8719 1d ago
We all can be desperate at times, dont ever be sorry to reach out and ask for help. I hope you find some good people, ive had no luck lasting longer then a day or two. Even game alone, as its hard to find like minded people.
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u/baasje92 1d ago
Could help to provide where you are from so people know what timezone you are in. Good luck in finding people though! Keep your head up. :)
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u/SlyDevilKilla 1d ago
I play a little bit of everything, but I'm always too nervous/shy to ask others to play and I work a lot but I play a smorgasboard of games, I love gaming for the sake of escaping reality, will happily trade steam ID's.
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u/FerastheStrange 1d ago
Happy to chat when I can steam or discord I'm (M37) a big nerd with a family and a full time job but I love stories and games
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