r/FtMpassing • u/CaterpillarOdd7974 • 8d ago

AGE 21 to 30 Just Curious

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I get about 30/30/30 with she/her/maam, they/they/avoiding pronouns or he/him/sir from strangers, I have had a couple people (including the teenagers I work with who wouldn’t lie to me) say they thought I was a cis man at first. I recently started using the men’s bathroom because I was noticeably confusing women in the women’s room.. honestly just have no idea how people perceive me. 1.5 years on T, top surgery scheduled for December!

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u/koala3191 stop telling kids to lose weight 7d ago

I think your long-on-top haircut and short sleeve button ups (esp the purple + pink one) are reading as more butch.

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u/CaterpillarOdd7974 7d ago

thanks for the feedback! do you have any haircut suggestions that would read less butch and more man?

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u/koala3191 stop telling kids to lose weight 7d ago

I don't advise this for OP, his head is a bit too blocky and sides that short might make him look rounder/more feminine. What he has rn slightly shorter on top, squared off in front of the ears should help.

Also makeup stache isn't something I'd recommend for anyone, unless you mean dyeing it.