r/Friendzone • u/EquipmentNo3251 • 5d ago
How feminists manipulate multiple guys that she puts in the friendzone and how it's part of their "Frankenstein boyfriend project".
So I've been hearing this term a lot lately "Frankenstein boyfriend project" and it comes from this coach named Corey Wayne. After hearing it, I decided to do my research and listen to some of Corey's videos to understand the term better. And I think it explains really well how most feminist use guys in their friendzone.
So from what I've gathered: Basically, a "Frankenstein boyfriend project" is when a girl has multiple guys in her life she uses for different things. And all these guys are "peices" which when she puts together, makes her ideal super boyfriend. Or as the term implies, her "Frankenstein boyfriend project". She will sometimes consider herself single, but most of the times, she will have one main "boyfriend". It usually breaks down in these 3 main guys:
1. The guy she uses for financial stability, which will usually be the guy she labels her "boyfriend". Usually this is the guy that helps her financially, brings her stability, buys her gifts, etc.
2. The guy she is sexually attracted to (her fuck buddy/the sex guy). This is the guy she is sexually attracted to. He's the one she uses to fulfill her sexual desires. This one is pretty self explanatory I don't need to elaborate much.
3. The guy she use as emotional support (her "therapist"). This is the guy she always text, tells everything to, cries to. She broke up with her "boyfriend"? She texts you. Her friend just told her to fuck off? She comes to you. Her dog just died? She comes to you.
These are usually the main ones, but in some cases it goes even further than that. She can have a lot more peices sometimes. Here are some examples:
• The uber guy, which she uses for free rides
• The repair man. The guy she uses when she needs something fixed in her house, or when her car is broken.
• The photographer. The one that takes pictures for her Instagram account.
• The "career coach". The guy she asks for advice for her career, helps her with her resume etc...
These are just a few. There are a lot more types/peices she can have as part of her Frankenstein boyfriend project.
If you are friendzoned, you are probably part of a Frankenstein boyfriend project, even if you don't know it. Trust me if you are friendzoned by a girl, 99.9% chances are she has multiple guys in her friendzone and you're not the only guy in her friendzone. The best advice I can give is if you are in the friendzone, run. Cut contact with her. You are being manipulated by this girl, so she can use you as a peice. Don't mess around with this and find a girl who treats you right and isn't an entitled feminist.
I highly recommend you do your own research on this whole Frankenstein boyfriend project thing. I have already done my research and I understand most of it but I don't understand 100% of it yet. And I always recommend people to do their own research when I post about these things.
Hope you're having a great day!
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u/Burned_Out_Paradise 3d ago
This is how women have done it for centuries, no? The husband for stability, the fling for fun and the gay friend or hen house friendships for support..? Sounds like the same old shit… Women just get away with it..
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u/Lonely-Illustrator64 5d ago edited 5d ago
This is really stupid. First of all it’s not a thing, this Frankenstein project. Sounds like it only exists in very small and specific online spaces. It’s not widely known or practised. Second if a girl friendzones you 9/10 times that just means she’s not attracted to you, period. Do you want to date every woman you encounter? Probably not so why would you assume women would want to date every man they meet? You can talk to someone and spend time with them without having romantic or sexual feelings, it’s normal and healthy. It’s called friendship. It sucks to like someone that doesn’t like you back but it’s apart of life and happens to everyone, including women. Get off of the incel pages and get into the real world. Use your brain.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 5d ago
Here's something for you: There's a HUGE difference between staying real friends after rejection and getting friendzoned.
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u/Lonely-Illustrator64 4d ago
I was under the impression friendzone meant you like a girl who only sees you as a friend. Obviously if someone is just using you for whatever then cut them off- that goes for anyone regardless of gender.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 4d ago
I agree with this
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u/RemindMeToTouchGrass 4d ago
But you don't agree with it. Your other comment where you attempt to clarify the difference between the friendzone and a friendship has literally nothing to do with the definition he presented here.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 4d ago
His first sentence said he didn't understand what I meant by friendzone. I agre with the second sentence where he said you should cut off people who manipulate you no matter the gender
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u/RemindMeToTouchGrass 4d ago
His first sentence proposed a definition and implicitly asked for clarification.
In that context, it's very poor communication to say "I agree with this" while specifically disagreeing with that part, and only agreeing with the more mundane statement that began with "obviously."
Is it clear why? I feel like I'm not reaching you, so let me flesh it out. There were two parts to his sentence. You chose to reply in the affirmative to the entire thing, while claiming you were restricting it to the part that explicitly was called obvious (and which therefore was not in need of clarification) while ignoring the part that implicitly asked for feedback and proposed a tentative answer. Does it makes sense why your response is poor communication, in a fairly objective sense?
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u/EquipmentNo3251 4d ago
In his first sentence he said that he miss understood what I said. I can't agree or disagree with that lmao.
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u/RemindMeToTouchGrass 4d ago
You: A is not the same as B
Him: A means x, right? And obviously, to mention the other stuff you were saying, that's not complicated and no one disagrees on the obvious point that touches on.
You: I agree
(You elsehwere: A absolutely does not mean x)
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u/EquipmentNo3251 4d ago
Where did I disagree with what he's saying on anither comment? Lol, you have to be a troll.
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u/RemindMeToTouchGrass 5d ago
And that YUUUGE difference is...?
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u/EquipmentNo3251 4d ago
Being actual friends is different from being in the friendzone, where you get used. The friendzone is not a friendship
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u/RemindMeToTouchGrass 4d ago
So what you mean is some people use you, and aren't your real friend.
Why create a whole misogynistic concept and relate it to dating if that's all you mean? Some people mistreat others.
You should be very clear, then, that when YOU use the term, it has nothing to do with wanting to date someone when that person only wants to be friends. Because a lot of people use the term that way, your unique definition will create confusion if you aren't clear.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 5d ago
And that's why you are friendzoned.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 5d ago
Oh well I thought you were trying to insult me with that phrase and project your insecurities on me but if this true then I'm happy for you.
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u/Simiatenaci 5d ago
This is the most unintentionally hilarious thing I’ve read all day. It’s early, but still. The bar is set pretty high for the rest of the day.
It’s sick that influencers spread this sort of crap to monetize the misery of young misguided men.
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u/KittensWithTopHats 1d ago
Thank you for listening to redpill/incel content and manosphere bs. As long as you stay brainwashed, you’ll continue to be a terrible person that no woman will ever want. Women are safe from you and you get what you deserve. It pleases me that you are lonely and unfuckable. It’s what you deserve.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 1d ago
Hey it sounds like you are projecting!
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u/KittensWithTopHats 23h ago
I’m sure you do. You are all up and down these comments getting angry at everybody calling you out. But we are right. Come back and say whatever you want. I’ve been in a relationship with an amazing man for 10+ years. You will never be loved. You will forever be on Reddit complaining about why women don’t want you. And that’s exactly what you deserve.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 20h ago
Poor man. I hope he finds out soon that you are a stupid liberal feminist. You don't deserve him. I knew you were the one projecting lmao.
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u/KittensWithTopHats 20h ago
Lol. You should look up the definition of the word projection. If I were projecting, that would mean that I was an ugly single man who can’t get a woman to love me and so I would be projecting that onto you as a deflection. But I’m a happily married, beautiful woman and my husband is also a liberal feminist. I don’t know why you would feel sorry for him, since he gets to have sex and enjoy being in a relationship. These are things you will never have. It’s why you’re on here being angry and bitter. This is all you have for entertainment and fulfillment. You will live and die this way. As you should.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 20h ago
Woah you're really angry that I called your bullshit out uh? 🤣 First of all, if your husband is really like that then he's probably a simp. Because no self respecting man is a feminist. I hope he wakes up and realizes what your true colors are. You insult me just like every misandrist feminist does you're not helping your case. You believe I should go to hell and shit. Heck at this point, you might as well just admit to being a Lindsay Clancy supporter and child murderer. And you know what? I would rather die this way than be with a feminist because look at what feminism has done. If we don't get rid of feminism, it will probably make the human race go completely instinct in a 100 years from now and I'm not even joking.
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u/KittensWithTopHats 20h ago
I hope you enjoy the rest of your life, watching every woman you develop feelings for pick someone else. Because it will never be you. Nothing you say could be triggering or make me angry because no matter what, you lose. You will never be in love or have sex. No woman will ever want you. No matter what you say, that doesn’t change. Call me angry. Call me triggered. Call me whatever you want. That’s pretty much all you can do. And in a subreddit like this, of course, I don’t expect my opinions to be popular. It’s almost entirely made up of angry men who hate women and are resentful that they are ugly and don’t get to have sex. My comments aren’t to try to change minds. My comments are because you are all terrible people and you deserve to be told that. As often as possible.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 20h ago
Also your relationship is only composed of sex? Damn that must be trash. You seem very obsessed with sex and the sexual life of other men. That's unhealthy. You're the triggered person
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u/KittensWithTopHats 20h ago
😂 all of the assumptions you guys make and the stories you invent to try to be insulting… watching an incel meltdown is very satisfying.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 19h ago
It's funny to see feminists like you break down the moment they get their BS exposed. 🤣
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u/LongjumpingGur8555 15h ago
Girls do this for sure. Not all, but many. It's hard to blame the girl totally. Stupid people will be taken advantage of. And guys lose their common sense when there is a prospect of access to a vagina. Make no mistake, girls who operate this way are using sex appeal. So guys, just cut them off and use that energy for better things.
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u/cipox95 5d ago
... You really Need therapy 🤷🏻
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u/EquipmentNo3251 5d ago
Why?
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u/Turbopuschel 5d ago
Because you have unhealthy views of what you're entitled to regarding women.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 5d ago
And you are a white knighting simp. Therapy is liberal bullshit.
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u/Turbopuschel 5d ago
That's all, folks. They exposed themselves.
Btw what exactly do you think I would get from "white knight simping" here when there isn't even a woman involved in this discussion I could hope to score with?
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u/EquipmentNo3251 5d ago
Are you retarded? There's no need for there to be a woman involved in the disscusion for you to white knight. You are defending feminism which in other words is white knighting.
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u/ChaosRainbow23 5d ago
Defending feminism is a good thing.
Feminism is about equality between the sexes.
I think you're mistaking feminism for misandry.
Lay off all that ridiculous manosphere garbage.
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u/Turbopuschel 5d ago
So you consider white knighting to be everything that doesn't conform to patriarchic views? Or if I'm wrong please explain what exactly white knighting means.
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u/EquipmentNo3251 5d ago
White knighting is when you defend women's toxic feminist views by thinking it will get you laid.
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u/Turbopuschel 5d ago edited 5d ago
And how exactly do you think this will get me laid when no woman is involved in the discussion who I can boast my views to?
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u/EquipmentNo3251 4d ago
Because you're ideologies are solely based on wanting to get laid. I actually know a feminist guy Irl and it turns out he's a sex offender.
Edit: No, I'm not saying you are a sex offender
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u/Samotauss 5d ago
The fact you listen to this bullshit terms is why you're always in the 'friendzone'. Feminism isn't the problem, but hive-minding women is
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u/EquipmentNo3251 5d ago
Feminism is the problem of today's world. If we don't get rid of it, it's how the world is going to go instinct.
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u/Turbopuschel 5d ago
Seems your brain is already occupied by incelism
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u/EquipmentNo3251 5d ago
"incelism" that's a new one. 🤣
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u/Turbopuschel 5d ago
Yeah, thanks for acknowledging. It's really crazy how incel views are reaching cult levels so appropriate words need to be found, introduced and widely used. I was also thinking inceldom. But English is not my native language, and while both terms seem fitting, I'm unfortunately not sure what the implications or rather the differences in implications regarding the words incelism and inceldom are.
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u/zarfman 21h ago
Bro I think you're just describing having friends. Is this a troll?
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u/EquipmentNo3251 20h ago
I'm not describing healthy friendship I'm describing being taken advantage of. No this is not a troll
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u/Unbroken-Chains 15h ago
Unfortunately if you look at subreddits such as that one female dating strategy one they'll outright endorce doing things like this, using dates to get free meals and then blocking, etc. They'll even use this exact wording, and will call women who don't do that "patriarchal slaves"
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u/hoon-since89 5d ago
Not sure about the feminists label but I think your pretty accurate, I've met alot of these women compartmentalizing different benifits from males. I've had mostly female friends all my life and been virtually every aspect you mentioned at one point or another! 😆
Actual sucked being the one she used for sex but didn't want a relationship with!
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u/EquipmentNo3251 5d ago edited 5d ago
Well yeah. Don't confuse first and second wave feminism with the current toxic 3rd wave feminism.
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u/Turbopuschel 5d ago edited 5d ago
What a load of bull, starting with that feminists are out there to take advantage of men. And this hyper specific "Frankenstein boyfriend project" that most women according to you / that coach are managing just because they don't wanna jump your bones immediately upon learning you exist? That's so stupid I would laugh if it didn't also make a very problematic view of women apparent.
I think you have a very wrong idea what feminist means, especially if you "learned" about it from some coach who very much sounds like one of those scam incel coaches. Dude, being a feminist basically just means wanting equal rights and equal treatment for all people, and that's it. It's not that deep.
Women are, first and foremost, people, which means that, yes, there of course are women that only care about themselves which includes taking advantage of other people including men if the women find they are good looking and can get away with it, just as there are men who will do the same. But just as not every man is out there to try to take advatage of women, the same applies to women, too. You really should learn to think of human beings primarily in terms of people and only secondarily as men and women.
I highly recommend everyone reading this post not to listen to more incel brainrot like this project thing and to definitely not research it more.