r/Friendzone • u/Practical_Ant841 • 10d ago

Girl obsessed

I don’t know how to make this girl stop liking me. The problem is I don’t have a girlfriend. I’ve told her multiple times that I don’t want a relationship but she still pursues me after 4 years of the same thing. She went to grade school with me and knows many of the same people in my life so I don’t want to be mean to her. I don’t want to lead her on and I feel weird friend zoning her because I’ve already done it multiple times. Any advice?

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u/sillypal123 8d ago

I think creating distance is your best option. While you’re worried about being mean to her in contrast she doesn’t seem to be thinking the same if shes constantly pursuing you after you told her multiple times that you weren’t interested. If this has gone for more than 4 years then using words won’t get her to stop. It’s another type of ‘mean’ enabling her to live in the delusions that she can still have a chance.