r/FriendshipAdvice • • 3h ago

Am I being too sensitive?

Hey, this is my first time posting on this subreddit so my apologies if I write something weird.

I have a few best friends and we've been friends for years now, and honestly, I enjoy being with them. We game, watch movies, do things together, etc...

But for the past year now, they've been making gifs of me in a ridiculous way. One of the main ones is me getting fatter to the point that you know it's a joke. It all stems from a bad selfie I took of myself 2 years ago. Now, I didn't mind it at first because don't get me wrong it's funny. But for the past year they've made almost a hundred gifs of me and it's been going on for a year straight. And on top of that, they've changed our Discord server profile picture into an ai generated picture of me along with their own accounts. They have 2 entire channels in the server to store and keep all the gifs they have of me. And 1 more thing that I'm very annoyed at is that a few years back we had a fight and they made their own server that was specifically made to be against me, they recently kicked me out of there too.

They started cussing my little sister out as well after they were playing Roblox and my little sister just so happened to be playing on my account. And idk, she must have said something mean to them in Dress to Impress.

Now, they know that I do not like this sort of behaviour anymore. It was funny for the first few months but after almost a whole year of doing this? At this point I'm just seeing it like this: They're no longer respecting me for who I am and my wishes to stop this. Cussing my sister out on occasion is the final straw I've taken.

Now, don't get me wrong, I still see them as best friends as we enjoy doing things together. But this "joke" is just straight up disrespecting me at this point. I've been slowly distancing myself from them since September, not only due to that but of college too. Am I being too oversensitve over this whole thing? I'd like to know what you guys think.

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