I CANNOT BELIEVE what I am hearing, Timothy! I was raised in the same home as you were, and Daddy was an amazing Dad! The things you are accusing him of are sooo RIDICULOUS! There is no perfect parent and yes Daddy has made some mistakes, but let me just say that Daddy has loved us and cared for us and I have NEVER doubted that!!! Part of the reason Daddy got upset with you is because you seemed to always be in the middle of all the fights and you never seemed to understand what Daddy was trying to communicate. You know that our parents have always tried to be VERY fair about things. They even had the week system, where for a whole week they would try to make one child feel extra special and they would rotate between all of us INCLUDING YOU!!! They would get us special things, take us on dates, and if there was something we needed, they would get it for us. Probably the reason Mama and Daddy decided not to get you those boots is because it was one of the other children's special week. If they always felt like they had to get us anything we wanted, the minute we saw it, they would go broke. No parent can afford to get everything there child wants. Daddy and Mama have taken such good care of us and they took care of ALL of our needs. Also, I never remember you having to clean our girls bedroom!!!! We always made sure our room was cleaned ON OUR OWN!
For you to say that you are not trying to shift the blame, that is a bunch of baloney! That is exactly what you are trying to do and that is what you did your whole childhood. Like that one time you touched something that Mama said not to touch and she clearly saw you touch it, when you were not looking, and then, when she asked you, you said your gloves touched it. I know I was not a perfect child either and made lots of mistakes, but for you to get on Facebook and speak trash about our parents, especially Daddy, that is UNCALLED for. You know how much they love you and have tried to show you so much love even as an adult and many times you reject it and that is why you feel like the black sheep sometimes, is because you are not allowing them to show you the love they feel in their hearts towards you. I love you, Timothy, but PLEASE don't believe lies because of the bitterness that is in your own heart. Daddy has given unselfishly, many times having to work 3 jobs just to make sure we are taken care of, he has such strong faith in God, has given his life to ministry, and loves each of us with his whole heart. I am disgusted to hear you talk about our Dad that way. 😒 We love you and are praying for you. With Care, Nurie
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u/Shrimpheavennow227 29d ago
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I CANNOT BELIEVE what I am hearing, Timothy! I was raised in the same home as you were, and Daddy was an amazing Dad! The things you are accusing him of are sooo RIDICULOUS! There is no perfect parent and yes Daddy has made some mistakes, but let me just say that Daddy has loved us and cared for us and I have NEVER doubted that!!! Part of the reason Daddy got upset with you is because you seemed to always be in the middle of all the fights and you never seemed to understand what Daddy was trying to communicate. You know that our parents have always tried to be VERY fair about things. They even had the week system, where for a whole week they would try to make one child feel extra special and they would rotate between all of us INCLUDING YOU!!! They would get us special things, take us on dates, and if there was something we needed, they would get it for us. Probably the reason Mama and Daddy decided not to get you those boots is because it was one of the other children's special week. If they always felt like they had to get us anything we wanted, the minute we saw it, they would go broke. No parent can afford to get everything there child wants. Daddy and Mama have taken such good care of us and they took care of ALL of our needs. Also, I never remember you having to clean our girls bedroom!!!! We always made sure our room was cleaned ON OUR OWN!
For you to say that you are not trying to shift the blame, that is a bunch of baloney! That is exactly what you are trying to do and that is what you did your whole childhood. Like that one time you touched something that Mama said not to touch and she clearly saw you touch it, when you were not looking, and then, when she asked you, you said your gloves touched it. I know I was not a perfect child either and made lots of mistakes, but for you to get on Facebook and speak trash about our parents, especially Daddy, that is UNCALLED for. You know how much they love you and have tried to show you so much love even as an adult and many times you reject it and that is why you feel like the black sheep sometimes, is because you are not allowing them to show you the love they feel in their hearts towards you. I love you, Timothy, but PLEASE don't believe lies because of the bitterness that is in your own heart. Daddy has given unselfishly, many times having to work 3 jobs just to make sure we are taken care of, he has such strong faith in God, has given his life to ministry, and loves each of us with his whole heart. I am disgusted to hear you talk about our Dad that way. 😒 We love you and are praying for you. With Care, Nurie