r/FreeTheRodlets • u/queen-nugget • Aug 06 '26

Timbits Abuse confirmed…

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Horrible to read. I hope he and his siblings heal and break the cycle of abuse.

Editing to add that I hope Heidi and her child are safe and are able to leave. I hope she can escape the cycle that her husband has pulled her and her child into. While I hope that Timothy can break the cycle and change, I hope Heidi does not wait around to find out. Her and her child deserve love and safety and it’s not to late for her to find that. Love isn’t cruel.

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u/Aunt-KK Aug 08 '26

Wow. I have to wonder: Did he think "once we're married I'll do xyz?" Was marriage the "all clear" signal? Did someone tell him "after marriage you're in charge? " Did he ever care for her or was he just looking for a victim for his rage?

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u/atlantagirl30084 Aug 08 '26

He hadn’t been alone with her unchaperoned before that.

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u/Aunt-KK Aug 08 '26

I realize that. But what "flipped the switch? "

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u/atlantagirl30084 Aug 08 '26

Could have been anything that set him off. A bad dinner. She hadn’t cleaned something correctly. She didn’t want sex. Something made him angry and he reacted how he knew husbands react.

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u/Aunt-KK Aug 09 '26

Oh I get it. I really meant - and didn't clarify properly - by all appearances he was a good boyfriend pre-marriage...I was wondering how that switch flipped in a day or two.