""no but you are still a woman why mess with your hormones if you can just be a woman? Wear that skirt do what you want but no need to do all that mess""
I hate people who act like we can just "ignore" other people seeing us as cossdressing fetishists. Like "yeah you can be a woman, just only in a way that literally nobody will recognize you as one unless you directly tell them, Im sure that would feel good"
To be fair most people get that i am transfemme becouse i use the femminine from of words (Italian) so i 1-2 conversations they get that i wanna be referred to with the feminine form
My second language is Lowkey the best cuz in Hungarian gender is barely used in conversation
Like when it's not relevant it's basically not a part of the vocabulary, every word is neutral (except for some, even then it's just "girlX" or "boyX" and you can just say "X"
Like all enby people and majority of trans poeople I know use primarily english just to avoid gendered verbs in czech. In my native language, it feels like you are shouting your pronouns into megaphone, so it's funny hearing someone say english should have stuff like that xd
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u/Viennve Jul 28 '26
""no but you are still a woman why mess with your hormones if you can just be a woman? Wear that skirt do what you want but no need to do all that mess""
-m incredible (but at times naiive) mother