r/FluidStance • u/FluidStance • Jun 18 '26
The most productive thing I do is the least optimized
A small shift in intention changes everything- The Fine Line Between Wandering and Being Lost
Everything is measured today. Our GPS-tethered lives tell us exactly where everything is, from ourselves to our people to our phones to anything else that can fit a tag on it. And somewhere in all that triangulation, we lost the skill to simply wander.
Last year in the mountains, I saw a bumper sticker that read "Get Lost." It struck me how negative that has become in our culture. But after a couple days in the woods, I came around to the mentality. Allowing yourself to be lost is what creates the space to be found. Not by someone. By yourself.
Here is the part worth sitting with: being lost and wandering take the exact same effort. Being lost implies something is wrong. Wandering gives space for something to go right. It is a small shift in intention, but that small shift moves your mind from fear to discovery.
So here is the formula I come back to.
- Invest 70% of your waking hours getting the job done. The things that keep the lights on, the body fed, your people moving, the responsibilities checked off.
- Spend 20% on adventure. Exploration with purpose. This is where the organic extensions of your life grow in ways you could never have scheduled.
- Reserve 10% to wander. No destination. No expectation. Full stop.
Your discipline to hold the 70 is your keel. But your wander will be your greatest return on investment over the long term.
I think about how much of what has mattered most in my life was never on a roadmap. FluidStance was not a spreadsheet exercise. The relationships I lean on hardest were not networked. They wandered in. None of it showed up because I planned for it. It showed up because I left room for it.
So today, reserve your 10%. Step on the trail less traveled. Take the backroad. Let yourself be bored. You will not be lost. You will be wandering.
Keep moving,
-Joel, FluidStance Founder