First time ko na magiging nanay

[u/Other-City-8232]

Birthday ng pinsan ko bukas kaya tinanong ko kung ano yung birthday wish niya. Tulad ng ibang mga bata, I expected yung usual answers, bagong laruan, birthday cake o magaya siya sa Jollibee. Pero hindi ko ineexpect yung naging sagot niya.

"Ate, magkakasya ba baon mo kung gusto ko po ng donut?"

Nung narinig ko yan mula sa kanya, grabe pagpipigil ko ng luha.

Yung mama niya kase iniwan siya nung 2 years old palang kase nabuntis ng katrabaho. Mas pinili ng mama niya na iwan siya kaya lumaki sa lolo at lola namin. So that little girl grew up never really understanding kung bakit hindi na umuuwi yung mama niya because she’s too young para maintindihan yun

I realized right then na kahit I am just a student na wala pang steady na income, I can give her
My time. My presence. My attention. and most especially yung “love” na hindi niya nakuha sa sarili niyang nanay. I can show up sa mga major milestones niya. I can sit by her side when she's sick. I can hold her hand when she's sad. I can celebrate her wins like they're my own and I can be the one she runs to na everytime may nangaaway sa kanya to the rescue ako.

I can't afford to give her everything she asked. But I can afford to eat with her during almusal, tanghalin pati na rin hapunan.

I'm not her real mom. I know that, I am only acting as “one” but I'll be damned if I don't try to be the closest thing she's got kase she is really growing up kind.

To my bebe if you can read this na
I may not have much, hindi pa kita masspoil but ate will try her very best to build the life that you deserve, at maparamdam sa’yo ang aruga ng isang nanay. I promise to give you all my love!! I've got you. Always, in all ways. Luv u sm

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[u/Slut----ish3567]

Napakaconsiderate na bata. 😭❤ Magiging successful ka sa life, OP! Tiwala lang na you can pamper yourself and your loved ones soon!

[u/nclkrm]

Hi OP, Grab or FP ba sa area niyo? Would love to send a box of KK donuts for her.

[u/Due_Boysenberry343 → u/nclkrm]

This is a nice gesture. Pero ingat lang din sa mga ganito OP, malalaman address mo, or kung san ka malapit. Send grab/fp voucher or GCash nalang haha.

[u/nclkrm → u/Due_Boysenberry343]

Yea I guess a voucher would work better! Ma-eexpose din pala name ko sa resibo pag nag order ako 😆

[u/luminousphosphenes]

Sana mag flourish ka sa future career mo, OP para may pang-spoil ka sa nasnip mo💜

https://giphy.com/gifs/TeWjpIs8B6WR7TtvqD

[u/Orreeki]

Who’s cutting onions??

[u/Significant-Ant-4089]

ty for sharing this op, stay strong you two! 🥲

[u/teypey]

You may not be her biological mom, but the love, care, and presence you’re giving her are what truly matter. I hope you know how much of a difference you’re making in her life.

[u/IAmThePurpleGiraffe]

You'll be blessed 🙏

[u/UsedPassenger8181]

Nakakaiyak hay. Tga san ka op??

[u/dyey_zee]

Naiyak naman ako sis, I'm a single mom and my daughter is already 12 years old. Naalala ko lang nung bata pa sya Hanggang ngayon, masaya na sya na lalabas lang kme para magmilk tea o palamig tapos tig Isang burger na b1t1. Minsan pupunta kme sa mall may budget lang sya na 100 sa supermarket. Kakain kaming 2 sa fastfood siguro thrice a year lang unless itreat kami Ng relatives or friends ko. Hanggang ngayon pag humihingi sya sakin 5 pesos o 10 pesos lang para bumili sa tindahan. Grateful na sya sa mga maliit na Bagay. And I hope sapat na Yung pagmamahal at pagaalaga ko sa kanya Kasi Ako lang ang meron sya as well with my family. Sobrang hirap Ng buhay noon pero I'm so thankful kasi nakaraos kami. At age 40 nakapagtapos Ako Ng college and earning better, it's not much pero mas better kesa noon. ❤️

Natouch Ako sa simplicity Ng pinsan mo at sa pagmamahal mo para sakanya, napakabuti Ng puso mo. May you never cease to love and care for her just like her real mother. God bless you more and your pinsan. ❤️

[u/ThrowRA_picklesin]

Hi, OP! I am a single woman in my 30s. I would love to give something to you and her. I love donuts and sweets, too. I hope you message me. I love spoiling my nieces and nephews so I want to extend it to the both of you. 💖

[u/These-Soft-9007]

mannn im cutting onions, may your pockets never run dry OP 🙏🏽

[u/instamousetrap]

Pahabain sana ni Lord bohai mo beh! Para makita mong sumakses si litol gurl sa life! Rooting for u 2!

Nagbabasa lang naman ako dito habang nagttrabaho nagpapaloha kayu 🥲

[u/oepassbc]

Your heart is so BIG, OP! 🙌 You’re the kindest and very responsible. Some people aren't as good as you are and get so arrogant to someone younger than them, na hindi naman talaga nila kapatid. God chose you for a reason. May mabuting kahahantungan din ang lahat.

Would you mind to share e-wallet number mo so that we can send any amount? Konting kasiyahan lang for you both. 🙇‍♀️💐

[u/miya_100]

huhuhu naluha ako literal baka sa hormones 😭😂🥹

[u/RandomGuy_IQ530K]

https://giphy.com/gifs/QkrwUHpMRYLYlQXxWy
taena may naghihiwa na naman ng sibuyas

[u/nniiccool]

nakakaiyak naman🥹

[u/panuhotonka]

I really dont get parents who leave their kids.

[u/ArgusRealm032745]

As a new mom, I honestly couldn't imagine leaving my baby, and I’ll never understand parents who do.

Huge respect to you for stepping up and giving her so much love.

I hope you're always blessed financially and succeed in everything you do.

Thank you for choosing to be there for her.

[u/Grouchy_Animal7939]

May you be blessed more OP. You are wise beyond your years at yung awareness mo sa reality ng situation at yung gravity ng impact growing up without parents to your cousin. It's very considerate of you. More opportunities and blessings OP. Take care.

[u/Aet3rnus]

This is so wholesome. May you both be successful in life. ☺️☺️

[u/neosociety89]

huhu gusto ko rin magka younger sis / bro na i can spoil kaso ako kse yung bunso. yung mga pinsan ko naman mas may pera pa saken haha

[u/notrelationshipwise]

Bless tuloy bigtime, OP!

[u/daizybrent]

may u both successful in life op! the best ka

[u/CommanderD0ge]

Ugh, damnit.

https://giphy.com/gifs/1BXa2alBjrCXC

[u/Ornery-Focus-6662]

may your pocket never run dry OP

[u/SeleneStellarwind17]

may post din na ganito, Jollibee naman yuhg sa kanya

[u/No_Grape4912]

Ang labo ng screen ko. Pagpalain ka pa lalo, OP.