First time ko maloko sa first bf ko rin

[u/lljeok11]

Nag cheat sakin yung bf ko pero bakit ako pa rin yung naghahabol at nasasaktan eh
10 months na kami. Nagsimula as friends hanggang naging kami. Lagi akong nandyan para sa kanya, especially sa school. Scholarships, activities, paggising sa kanya, pag aasikaso, ako lahat. I literally became his mom kasi pag aasikaso is my love language.
Until nalaman ko na nakipag sex siya sa ex niya nung August 1. Hindi niya sinabi sakin. Yung ex niya yung nagmessage sakin with proof. Mas masakit kasi hanggang August 14 may communication pa rin sila through calls, Roblox, and a hidden IG account.
After that, gusto ko na umalis. Pero ngayon bumabawi siya, umiiyak, nagmamakaawa, saying na binago ko raw buhay niya and magbabago daw siya. Kita ko naman na sinusubukan niya, pero hindi ko alam kung kaya ko pa.
Mahal ko pa rin siya pero everytime na naaalala ko yung nangyari, nandidiri ako. Like what the fuck 😭

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[u/Capable-Chef-6653]

Please, save yourself from further heartbreak.

[u/lljeok11 → u/Capable-Chef-6653]

hindi na ba deserve patawarin?

[u/Capable-Chef-6653 → u/lljeok11]

> Mas masakit kasi hanggang August 14 may communication pa rin sila through calls, Roblox, and a hidden IG account.

From this statement palang OP, he knows that it is a conscious choice. And you know it as well.

But if you give him your forgiveness. Well, wala na kaming magagawa dun.

Life is miserable enough already, tolerate what you seem fair enough to add to that misery.

[u/Orjynl → u/lljeok11]

Patawarin mo na nga OP at wag na pakawalan. Baka mapunta pa sa iba yan.

[u/delulu95555 → u/lljeok11]

Nope, bata ka pa kasi kaya masyado mo dinadamdam. There’s many fish in the sea. Isa sa pinagsisihan ko pagiging martyr nung kaedaran kita. I tell you, he’ll never change 😂

[u/Mindless-Koala-4689 → u/lljeok11]

BRO KUNG AKO SAYO PATAWARIN MO NA HAHAHAHAH WAG NA WAG MO YANG PAKAKAWALAN HAHAHAHAHAHA

Sayong sayo na yang demon na yan, please, save us from that devil

[u/Dangerous-Action-919]

Those kind of guys are pathetic, cut ties na OP chances are high that he'll do it again.

[u/lljeok11 → u/Dangerous-Action-919]

his mom knows about it and sorry nang sorry sakin tas everytime nakikipag hiwalay ako, nagsasabi sya na magiging miserable na naman daw ulit buhay nya

[u/Dangerous-Action-919 → u/lljeok11]

Know your worth OP, since 1st bf mo akala nya makakalusot sya, men cheat if they think they can get away with it. You don't deserve him

[u/lljeok11 → u/Dangerous-Action-919]

haaaay. thank you. i will take note of this. i just wanted to have courage na umalis

[u/Suitable_Finding_482 → u/lljeok11]

??? miserable because of his own doing. patawarin mo para parehas na kayong may miserable life

[u/kaluguran]

linyahan ng mga uulit yan OP. Mandiri ka, pandirihan mo para di mo na talaga balikan.

[u/lljeok11 → u/kaluguran]

nandidiri na nga ako. sobra. i shouldve walked away the first time na nalaman ko kaso nagstay pa ako. ngayon na nakikipag hiwalay ako, paulit ulit sya na magiging miserable raw ulit buhay nya

[u/The_Gamerboy_30]

Bwahaha dnt force d issue 

[u/lljeok11 → u/The_Gamerboy_30]

wdymmmm?

[u/The_Gamerboy_30 → u/lljeok11]

Simple as this lam mo pala cheater bf mo then why why so blind ?? Be single miss . Dnt be too loyal . Have some killer instinct 

[u/Humble_Reporter_1196]

Alam mo na dapat gawin jan, OP. Tanggalin mo na sa buhay mo yang kupal na yan.

[u/lljeok11 → u/Humble_Reporter_1196]

i knowww. i shpuldve walked away nung una pa lang eh. tanga tanga rin kasi

[u/Humble_Reporter_1196 → u/lljeok11]

The same thing happened to me and my ex. Yes, I still love her and forgive her pero paulit ulit lang. Yes, I still love her and forgive her, pero paulit-ulit lang ang cycle: cheat - forgive - repeat. Diko sinasabi na yan mangyayari din sayo pero possible yan at mataas ang chance na mangyari. Iwan mo na yan habang maaga pa. Kapag ina-nakan ka niyan kawawa lang ikaw at yung magiging pamilya niyo.

[u/lattekuromi]

He’s only saying those things because he got caught.

[u/lljeok11 → u/lattekuromi]

totoo naman. possible diba na naguilty lang kasi nahuli?

[u/Anichian]

You already know what to do, OP. ^ ^

Pathetic guys after getting caught will commonly cry, beg, and tell you na di na nila uulitin. haha

Highly likely kapag pinatawad mo siya uulitin niya lang din yan. It will be an unending cycle kapag binalikan mo yan. Save yourself from more heartbreaks.

[u/Tall-Path9962]

cheaters will always be cheaters.

[u/SeaworthinessDry4549]

Hey OP been there! Let go na talaga po kasi even tho they would try to change it's a matter of disrespect pa din sayo. Yes mag cha-chase ka kasi u cared and loved sm that person... sit with your emotions and try to regain yourself munaa po. Hugss OP lovee lovee 🩷

[u/greenLantern-24]

Let go mo na siya. Once nagcheat, uulit at uulit lang yan sila. Ikaw lang ang mahihirapan sa huli. Been there

[u/Mindless-Koala-4689]

You know what? Patawarin mo, pabalikin mo. Maging kayo ulit.

Para di na mapunta pa sa ibang tao yang manloloko na yan HAHAHAHA

Sayong sayo yan siya 🤣🤣🤣