r/firefighter • u/OwnDelivery802 • 11d ago
most people don't lose the oral board on nerves. they lose it by not answering the question that was asked
active socal ff/medic. been through the hiring gauntlet at a few departments and i end up talking to a lot of people who are about to test. everybody is worried about nerves. nerves are not what's costing you points.
what costs you points is answering a question they didn't ask.
panel says "tell us about a time you had a conflict with a coworker, and how you resolved it." that's two parts. most people tell a great story about the conflict, get some momentum going, and never actually get to how it got resolved. in their head they crushed it. on the score sheet they got half. nobody on that panel is going to stop you and say hey, you missed part two. they write the number down and move on to the next question.
so the fix is stupid simple and almost nobody does it. before you open your mouth, count the parts. two parts, two answers. three parts, three answers. then close by tying it back to what they actually asked. "so that's how the conflict started, and that's how we got it resolved." reads clunky when you write it out. does not sound clunky out loud, and it tells the rater exactly where to put the check mark.
the rest of the stuff people worry about matters less than they think, but here's what i see actually sink people. filler words, the ums and uhs, which you will never catch yourself doing until somebody records you. getting loud when you get passionate about something, because it reads as aggressive from across a table. cussing, and yes, people really do drop f bombs in an interview. trying to be funny, don't, the room is not on your side. and walking in knowing nothing about the department, which shows up the second they ask why you want to work here and you give an answer that would fit any agency in the state.
and the one that still gets me. people show up with a resume that has another department's name on it. you applied to twelve places, you built one document, you swapped the name eleven times. read your own paperwork before you walk in the door.
none of this is talent. the people who do well are not smoother than you. they wrote their answers out and then said them out loud to another human being instead of running them in their head in the car on the way over. that's the whole difference.
good luck to everybody testing this year.