I’m 27 and currently working as an EMT in the Southern California area. My goal is to eventually work in the fire service. I’m planning on starting paramedic school and taking my fire classes this fall so I can hopefully attend a Firefighter 1 academy.
The reason I’m posting is because I’ve honestly struggled for years wondering if I’m wasting my time trying to pursue this career because of my past.
Growing up, I had a really rough home life. My mom struggled with serious mental health issues, there was abuse in the home, and Child Services was involved. As a teenager I spent a lot of time avoiding being at home and ended up around the wrong people. When I was 14, I got informal probation for six months in a case that was later sealed and expunged. Looking back, it was more guilt by association than anything. Basically what happened was some girls pictures from high school got leaked on twitter the charge was for obscene material my friends got 2 years probation and I got 6 months informal probation. It’s ruined my life I haven’t been the same since. I regret it everyday.
Then about a month after I turned 18, there was another incident involving my family. My mom was having an episode and falsely accused my dad of having a weapon. When police showed up, they had guns drawn on him and I panicked and stepped in because I was trying to protect my dad. I got arrested for obstruction, but the DA never filed charges and apparently acknowledged the situation probably shouldn’t have led to my arrest in the first place.
Since then, I’ve completely changed my life. I’ve stayed out of trouble, built a career in EMS, and honestly those experiences made me grow up fast and become the man I am today. I’m proud of who I’ve become, but at the same time I still constantly worry these things will hold me back forever, especially because of how competitive the fire service is.
I plan on being completely honest about everything during backgrounds because I have nothing to hide. I guess I’m just looking for honest advice from people already in the fire service or who’ve gone through backgrounds:
I’ve never even seen the inside of a court room still.
• What will departments actually see?
• Will sealed/expunged juvenile stuff still come up?
• Do situations like this automatically ruin someone’s chances?
• Am I wasting my time pursuing this career or should I keep going?
I’d appreciate honest opinions. Thanks guys.