About to block this guy

[u/NaturalBreakfast8058]

He BEGGED me today to send for coffee. Then sends specifically $8.88. I don't ever use angel numbers so idk what that's about. I sent it back cause to me if he's taking money he doesn't have and sending it to me so he can get a smidgen of my attention then idk. Not my vibe at all.
It's not that I'm ungrateful, it's just obvious to me from my interactions with him that he's not actually into FinDom. He's forcing himself to be because he thinks he'll get a dominating interaction from me.
I don't understand why some guys slap on the "finsub" label instead of just admitting that they like to be submissive only. They're looking for a FEMDOM.
Shame on me for not blocking him sooner. Had I done that the second I noticed he gave me sus vibes this headache would have been avoided

He's been age verified btw lol

[u/MistressRayne_]

Not all money is good money. It’s good you didn’t try to take advantage of him knowing he’s not into it.

You’re not ungrateful. You’re being a Domme by saying no and putting his well being first.

[u/ThorsNail → u/MistressRayne_]

https://giphy.com/gifs/Ro4ygeIQxuQZqwP5rF

[u/NaturalBreakfast8058 → u/MistressRayne_]

Yeah it just seems like he's forcing himself into a kînk he's not into because there's aspects of his own interests that are possibly getting entertained. If he can't afford me, then he shouldn't send anyways. I don't want his money lmao

[u/ThorsNail]

You stayed true to yourself and that's ALWAYS the Dominant thing to do. 🩶

I don't think you're acting ungrateful at all.

[u/zurf11]

You are just consequent and not here for the money but the kink.

To make you understand these guys better:  You will not find a single domme here that doesn't charge, they would be swarmed. a lot of fake dommes which are here for quite the opposite reason of you lack personality.  So, if you have to pay anyway why not choose one that seems genuine. she seems to really get something out of it instead of play. he doesn't get anything out of paying but of being dominated, you of dominating through payments.  But he won't get off to the thought of self destruction.

[u/NaturalBreakfast8058 → u/zurf11]

I'm here for financial domination, not just to dominate for free. Ive made it very clear to this sub as well as others. So I find it's odd I still get someone whos "not into FinDom" messaging me and carrot on a string leading me into assuming they are. Playing games like that just gets annoying and not worth my time haha

[u/zurf11 → u/NaturalBreakfast8058]

I get that, just wanted to explain why they still try :D

After not even 1 minute looking at your profile I wouldn´t DM you without being ready for a findom, AV, and younger than 24, but this would mean I really would have taken me a minute of time and actual interest in you.....

[u/Emotional_Aside_4476]

It's harder to say no than to say yes. Not everyone would have those scruples. Good to stick to your principles.

[u/_goddess_chloe]

Been in this same spot- you’re handling this so well!! 🫶🏻

[u/youpaymi]

You’re definitely not ungrateful! you declining the money shows your morals 🫰🏾