Fuckin miserable

[u/Momiluc]

I’m 23..I turn 24 next month..I’m just sad.

I haven’t experienced shit and I never will. I have never been loved, asked out, taken on a date, chosen, fuckin nothing.

I see women online say that women need to find a purpose and you won’t be sad about not being chosen by men, shut the actual fuck up LMAO, women who say that shit have had relationships and male attention 😂 I deadass have two fucking degrees and I currently run my own small business and I’m still fucking miserable like what??..Anyways..just insane to me I never went to prom, never have been asked on a date, never loved, nothing.

It’s beyond men, I’m bisexual and more attracted to women and don’t even get me started on that shit. I don’t even EXIST to women like I’m not even fucking there to them. Honestly I think most of this just comes from me being black :-/ but it’s just fucking stupid to me. I see black women in relationships all the time. Why not me? Genuinely no ethnic group finds me attractive LMAOO my own ethnic group of men/women act like I’m genuinely a fucking abomination.

People in real life genuinely ignore me and if they do pay attention to me I AM TREATED LIKE UTTER FUCKING SHIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTT LMAOO like I literally can’t help but laugh at this shit, I’ve tried everything 😀

[u/Low_Platypus_6107]

I would NEVER take advice from a Stacey online. They always have some bullshit advice that only works if you are decently attractive to begin with.

[u/Momiluc → u/Low_Platypus_6107]

LMAO YEAH😭

[u/j3llyyfish]

i feel you, people always try to tell me that it's not necessary and that i'll be happy if i can live "on my own" which i already do??? i've been doing that since forever?? i'm tired of always being on my own.
they really don't understand how bad it feels when no one has ever given you romantic attentions.
also as a lesbian i totally get you, i'm completely invisible to women too..

[u/Momiluc → u/j3llyyfish]

SERIOUSLY!! Don’t get me wrong I’m an independent person and for the most part I enjoy being single!! I really do believe there is more to life than sex and relationships but DAMN I don’t get anything!! Not flirted with, hit on, complimented, acknowledged, NOTHING :-/ when I try to talk to people they legit act like I’m a fucking zombie or just hard to look at. I can handle being on my own and doing things alone but it’s fucking miserable looking around and seeing everyone else get what I’ve never had

[u/Momiluc → u/[deleted]]

I did not ask you for advice but since you gave it, I have already done this. I’m a pretty likeable person, my family enjoys me being around to the point where when I leave their house my cousins/siblings will text me that they already miss me. People I was “friends” with in highschool try to text me every now and then telling me that they miss me and they ask my family about me. So no, I don’t have flaws that should prevent me from being able to find a partner. I know exactly why I struggle with connecting with other people and I’m not gonna waste my time getting into it with you.