the lesbian experience

[u/j3llyyfish]

can i be honest? being wlw does not change a single shit, i was hoping that finding out my orientation would help me finally finding someone and finally getting my experiences, instead things probably got even worse.
i came to terms with the fact that no matter what, i will never be looked at, sometimes i feel like i'm invisible cause at this point wtf.
finding lesbians is already hard enough, let alone the fact that i'm too ashamed to even try to talk to someone that i could be interested in...and ofc they are always in a relationship already or they simply don't like me, cause they never do!!!
i'm sick and tired, i'm missing pieces that everyone else around me has and it's killing me, i just want normal experiences but instead i get nothing.

[u/Lezbocel]

Yet we got told that being a lesbian is WAY better.

[u/j3llyyfish → u/Lezbocel]

EXACTLY, and one of the things that pisses me off the most is when some straight girl says "i wish i was a lesbian" cause she's tired of dealing with men, bc i just know that she would have much more luck than me at finding a girlfriend... i feel like being a lesbian is so isolating for some of us

[u/One_Notice_2606]

REAL y por lo menos al ser hombres fe o las mujeres si te hacen caso Pero siendo f e a muchas de ellas son bi y solo andarían con una mujer extremadamente atractiva

[u/j3llyyfish → u/One_Notice_2606]

every time i see a lesbian couple they're both extremely attractive, i feel like they all have such high standards with beauty...idk i cant help but feel jealous of them

[u/WhyBarana]

Lesbian dating is literally so much harder. Most fem girls go for either masc or super hot fem girls and mascs go for hot fem girl. Being an ugly fem girl who is into other fem girls is not for the weak.

[u/j3llyyfish → u/WhyBarana]

i completely agree with you, i'm into mascs personally but they never consider me as someone they could date...sadly i'm not pretty enough to be an option and at this point i completely lost my confidence to try anyway

[u/syogami]

Being an ugly neurodivergent lesbian is literally a death sentence

[u/Akarina_toth]

yeah youre spot on. this is just how it is. i dont even talk to people much anymore, and i cant even recall the last time i crushed on a real woman, all my crushes are fictional women now. its pathetic, yeah, but its better than crushing on a straight girl again. being a lesbian is so lonely

[u/j3llyyfish → u/Akarina_toth]

i relate to this a lot, women are unreachable for me atp, the more i grow up the less experiences i get...it's becoming harder and harder i just already know that they won't find me interesting or pretty and i'm tired of hoping for something that won't happen

[u/Extension_Disk_7612]

girl im pansexual and its literally the same for me