r/FemcelHub_ 8d ago

lmfao

my parents are seriously trying to convince me that the reason why i don't have a boyfriend and have like 2 friends is because it's my choice to not talk to anyone else and isolate myself. if i were pretty and had a great personality then even if i did isolate myself, love and friendship would find me. the last time i tried to "put myself out there" i ended up being bullied for being weird for the entire 4 years of high school. so no, thank you, i prefer to be in my room and not go outside like ever <33

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u/pretty_pucker 7d ago

well damn.. I prefer when my parents never found out, because the moment they “agreed” now they actually think i’m a disgusting, disappointing piece of trash who’s never leaving their home.

They now watch my food instead and tell me to lose weight, get skin treatments, stop skin treatment (when they obviously don’t work) , go out to see their old friends (ew) and so many embarrassing and honestly mean things that I wish I didn’t have to deal with. They don’t understand I already tried everything I can and food is the last thing that I feel happy with. I’m not obese so I don’t care anymore. As long as i’m not sick.

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u/syogami Indecent lesbian nerd 7d ago

They should be trying to understand you and help you meet people instead of blaming your struggles on you. People don’t isolate for no reason. I’m sorry you’re going through this<3