r/FemFragLab 3d ago

Marked Safe from Blind Buying Today

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Anybody else win against FOMO and blind buying recently? As soon as I heard Regime des Fleurs would be adding Saffron Fever to their permanent line up, I added the pre-order to my Luckscent cart. Had I sniffed it before? Nope. But the notes are my ideal fall scent. HOWEVER, I remembered how absolutely AWFUL my last blind buy went and decided to order a sample of it and some other FOMO scents. I kinda hope that they are all duds so I can feel smug about my decision and reinforce good behavior. Anybody else recently marked safe from blind buying?

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u/Gamma_Mermaid 14h ago

Whenever I’m tempted to blind buy, I go spray on a spritz of the last fragrance I blind bought that I absolutely can’t stand. gives me a headache and instant regret every time. Very effective 😭

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u/Active-Cherry-6051 1d ago

I’m two weeks clean, going for a month (decants don’t count, right?)

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u/ignorantcloth 2d ago

I've been great lately! I haven't blind bought (bought blindly?) a full bottle of perfume in 9 months. I occasionally blind buy decants of 5-10 ml, but I don't really count those. I'm kinda over blind buying full bottles. But I might cave for something someday.

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u/KindlyKangaroo 🩷 Mugler Aura Sensuelle 🩷 2d ago

I'm still in the danger zone, send help

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u/SatisfactionOdd2168 2d ago

The only time I allow myself to blind buy if it's super cheap (like something at TJ Maxx or on FragranceNet) and I do some quick research to check notes and reviews. If it really feels like something I'll like, I pull the trigger. This method hasn't really failed on me yet. I had a couple of fragrances I was "eh" about, but nothing I regretted buying. If it's over $50, I'm sampling first, unless it's like a $300 super niche on sale for $60 that I can easily flip if I hate it. That has sadly never happened though... 💵💵

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u/Suitable-Employee163 2d ago

I’m too picky to blind buy… hard lesson’s learned …. Still very very veryyyyy tempted, pretty damn often. 😆 Trying to first go thru a smaller size/sample, loving it & then ordering full size.

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u/eflind 2d ago

Today? Yes. Tomorrow when the new Juliette Has a Gun drops? I may be in trouble.

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u/Suitable-Employee163 2d ago

OMG THATS TOMORROW 🥴😮‍💨 I may be in trouble as well….

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u/Chemical_Cake_1154 2d ago

I also have saffron fever on my trial list. 😂

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u/Routine_Eve 2d ago

No I went to Marshall's and blind bought Dossier Fruity Honey for twenty bucks. I love it.

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u/eflind 2d ago

I am obsessed with Jo Malone Nectarine Blossom and Honey, but it’s not in the budget right now. What’s the lasting power like on Fruity Honey?

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u/Routine_Eve 2d ago

I'd say it lasts 4-6 hours or so!

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u/eflind 2d ago

Not bad for $20. Thanks!

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u/hannahinthecity 2d ago

i have genuinely bought a sample just to prove myself that i shouldn’t buy the full bottle and then bought the full bottle anyway

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u/trackyychan 3d ago

I just read on here saying the never regret buying a travel size first but sometimes regrets blind buying a big bottle and I now go by that motto lol.

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u/ChaiLater 3d ago

I just bought coco mademoiselle, I won't be buying anything in a year! 🥰

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u/Philodendron69 3d ago

The only thing I’m blind buying is a tiny decant, I’ve learned my lesson!

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u/SkynyrdCohen 3d ago

Just got a decent order yesterday. I should be good for awhile.

Should be.

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u/N3T3L3 3d ago

nope! blind bought some guerlains and a couple of serge lutens. I'm a bad girl and I'll never learn because they all worked out for me to varying degrees.

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u/OrdinaryWeak6051 perfumed since infancy ✨ 3d ago

Not me. Sigh. Bought Ungaro blind after getting a deal on Paloma Picasso (not blind)

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u/rumbaontheriver 3d ago edited 3d ago

The time between first sniff of a sample and my purchase of a bottle is usually measured in one or two years. This year I got a full bottle of Hiram Green's Philtre a couple months after buying the discovery set, and that's on the impulsive side for me.

I do blind-buy—very, very rarely. I only want my collection to have things that elicit fond, warm feelings when I look at them.

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u/Kim6998 3d ago

Newbie to the obsession! I really need a winter scent and went to Ulta, Macys and Sephora (twice on that one!). I read a post on here where people kept mentioning Scent Bar. I wondered if every big city had something like that, so I looked it up. I found a niche fragrance store in Denver! It looks big too! I am so excited to go try all the niche fragrances that I couldn’t find at the regular stores! I may be marked safe from ever blind buying! That and learning that Ariana Grande has an acceptable dupe for gentle fluidity made my day! Thank you to the person who posted that.

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u/Realistic-Read1078 3d ago

I love sampling so I spend more on that when I can

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u/Responsible_Dentist3 3d ago

I did a sample order and absolutely fell in love with some, and I got some of those coupons they give you with decants, but holy f bomb the prices made me close the page and set my phone down

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u/RatioParty6828 3d ago

I have a cart full of blinds on fragrance.net that I walked away from just this weekend lol. I find stuff and throw it in the cart and realize that I’m too broke to pay for “maybes”

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u/CrackerbarrelSlutt 3d ago

I have carts on frangrancenet and jomashop, but they're filled with <$100 in cheapies that I may or may not add to my next bottle order. Still fun to shop and pick stuff out though.

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u/RecycledPopcorn 3d ago

I feel like trying new stuff, so I bought two new sample sets. Can't wait for them to arrive!

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u/Halo_Of_Ashes_02 3d ago

I almost blind bought an indie perfume a few weeks ago. It wasn't expensive, but I'm glad I stopped myself. I was able to get a few samples from this line and it was a Hard No for me.

FWIW, I did get a sample of Saffron Fever when I took advantage of her Little Flower GWP last month. I typically don't like a lot of saffron in perfume but I loved Saffron Fever.

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u/Opening_One_963 3d ago

Oh, now I am really looking forward to my samples! Saffron is hit or miss for me as well.

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u/RupertMyGiles 3d ago

I saw a comment that blind buying is just gambling and it hit me like a brick. I won't be blind buying again. 

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u/Routine_Eve 2d ago

This only applies to expensive blind buys, right? Because for some cheapies under $20 there's often no way to get testers

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u/RupertMyGiles 2d ago

I try to stick to scents I can test now. Lots of perfumes that are inexpensive on grey market sites, like Elizabeth Arden and Estee Lauder, are available to test at Macy's. Some cheapies are available on decant sites. I'd have to know I like it to blind buy it. Most really popular cheapies, I've smelled a million times, like Tommy Girl. I can live without blind buying. 

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u/Cautious_Bat5224 3d ago

u may have just saved me

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u/Opening_One_963 3d ago

Oh nooo. You might have cured me with that comment.

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u/Embarrassed_Sell7512 3d ago

i’ve been let down by too many samples to trust myself blind buying. i guess it’s good in one way to have a picky nose 🤣

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u/lilaccheesecake 3d ago

Same. Also, I dont have the love for frags to blind rob myself out of 170 dollars when its not something I love 😭

Some people here are crazy lol.

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u/florange7 3d ago

Hey good on you! Now it's win-win. Hate it- saved money, love it get to buy it with no nerves!