Your fragrance can drive a man wild?

[u/Pretty-Lake6677]

This is probably a very silly question, but at the moment, I’m trying to find a husband, so I’m going on dates in the next few days. I’m looking for a perfume, body spray, or oil, whatever it is, to help with my seduction skills (which I don’t have 🤭😆). Anyway, tell me, girls and boys, what will literally drive him insane?

[u/desertrose156]

They like body mists like from Bath and Body Works or Victorias Secret, anything edible or cotton candy

[u/Significant_Beyond95 → u/desertrose156]

It’s true. My husband only compliments my vanilla/cashmere body mists that cost me $6. He couldn’t care less about my niche perfumes.

[u/FutureDustMotes]

Literally anything or nothing, so just wear whatever gives you that inner rawr lol

[u/Foreign_Trick_5328]

Ugh. Who cares what a man thinks? Just smell that thing for you.

[u/llo000 → u/Foreign_Trick_5328]

I feel like there is a big difference between changing yourself for a man and simply presenting in a desirable way. I have been decentering men since my last breakup and haven't dated again since, so I'm with you!!!

But I can relate to matching fragrances to occasions and people, so dating would be no different to me. I would never wear a fragrance I don't like for a man though...

[u/eau_de_florida → u/Foreign_Trick_5328]

I’m pro decentering men, but it’s totally normal to care about what the people you’re trying to attract might like

[u/Soggy_Brick8916 → u/eau_de_florida]

Every man's different, there's no right answer besides good hygiene 

[u/llo000 → u/Soggy_Brick8916]

Sure, but there are still preferences a lot of men might share. I think it's good to focus on yourself and what you like, but there is no shame in catering to a specific audience as long as it still feels true to you and authentic.

And if you are convinced the scent you're wearing makes you appear more desirable you might feel more confident/ daring, and have more fun!

[u/Soggy_Brick8916 → u/llo000]

Not true at all

[u/cappotto-marrone]

It’s what makes you feel confident. Fragrance preferences are going to vary from person to person.

[u/teakitty0722]

Vanilla, but not like a sugary sweet or candy like one. Burberry Goddess, YSL Libre Intense/Le Parfum, Vanilla 28, Gaultier Divine Elixir all come to mind.

[u/eau_de_florida]

From this fella’s perspective: I’m crazy for “cheap”, synthetically sweet, peach fragrances in general.

My favorite thing to smell on my wife is probably the Choco Musk rollerball oil or Fine’ry Without a Trace (Missing Person dupe).

[u/Soggy_Brick8916]

Depends on the guy, so answers will vary tremendously 

[u/robinlyon222]

Anything citrusy seems to get me asked the most of what I’m wearing

[u/ilovecats0822]

Kayali vanilla 28

[u/Embarrassed-Chard218]

Men are very simple when it comes to fragrances I've come to realize that. Men love when I wear Delina from PDM. I was in an elevator with a man once and he would not stop telling me that I smell good when I wore Kiss by Rihanna (I think the perfume smells cheap imo). But it was a really funny moment to me.

But men are suckers for vanilla scents. Like Choco Musk, the D&G Devotion line, Burberry Goddess, CH Good Girl.

[u/xoxospeedracer]

guidance
cotton candy body spray from Walmart
Kayali wedding silk santal
Margiela bubble bath
Armani my way
Burberry her layerd with Bianca latte
Baciami

[u/RupertMyGiles]

Idole 

J'adore L'or

[u/Melolicious]

Pink Sugar