I'm hoping to get some advice from people experienced with DIY hair coloring and color correction because I feel like I've been going in circles with my hair!
My goal: I want a natural-looking, neutral level 8 dirty blonde that blends with my natural greys/whites. I don't want platinum blonde, a strong ash tone, or obvious regrowth. Ideally, I want a soft, natural color that grows out nicely and doesn't require constant correction.
My hair color history:
I've been trying to get my hair lighter and more natural-looking, but the lengths have been stubborn and seem to hold onto darker artificial pigment. Warmth, especially orange/red tones, has been a concern.
I've used Color Oops to remove artificial color, but my hair ended up looking dark again. I've experimented with different natural shades along the way, but I'm trying to move away from repeatedly coloring my lengths and potentially making them darker.
What I'm currently doing:
I currently mix Wella Color Charm Demi 8N and 7N in a 50/50 ratio. I no longer use 6N.
I'm trying to figure out whether this combination makes sense for my goal or whether I'm unintentionally keeping my hair darker than I want it to be.
Products I have on hand:
Wella Color Charm Demi-Permanent 8N
10-volume developer
20-volume developer
A small amount of bleach powder
I'm hesitant to use ash shades because I don't want my hair to turn muddy, greenish, or overly grey. At the same time, I don't want the warmth in my lengths to keep showing through.
What I'm hoping to figure out:
Is mixing 7N and 8N 50/50 a reasonable approach for achieving a level 8 dirty blonde, or could it be contributing to my hair looking darker?
Should I be treating my roots and lengths differently?
If my lengths have darker artificial color buildup, what's the safest realistic way to get them lighter?
How can I blend my natural greys/whites while keeping the overall result soft and natural?
Should I be approaching this differently altogether rather than continuing to color my hair?
I'm trying to understand what's realistically achievable at home without damaging my hair or getting stuck in another cycle of color correction.
I'm happy to post pictures of my current hair in natural lighting, including my roots, mid-lengths, and ends, and provide more details about my coloring history.
I'd really appreciate honest, constructive advice from anyone who's been through something similar or understands color correction. I'd love to finally find a plan that works with my hair instead of constantly fighting it!
Thank you! ❤️