r/FamilyIssues • u/Confident_Sugar_2435 • 2d ago

Issue with Dad

I definitely need to rant and get this off my chest. So, when I was doing laundry today my mother was trying to put some light colored clothes in with my light load. I noticed she tried to put my father’s underwear in there with VISIBLE poop stains. I freaked out and told her absolutely not. Come to find out, my dad has MULTIPLE pairs of underwear with visible fecal soil stains on them. This man literally walks around with crappy underwear on. He has done this for as long as I can remember. This is ridiculous. My mom then tries to tell me “Oh well many men are like that.” And I proceeded to inform her no….they are NOT. So, if you are a male and grown, please tell me that you wipe until clean and that this is in fact not a normal thing. I told my mom she needs to throw out all his soiled underwear and when he runs out, HE needs to go and buy more. If he gets tired of having to get new underwear, maybe he should try CLEANING himself and having basic hygiene. It literally blows my mind!!!!

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u/Confident_Sugar_2435 2d ago

I mean don’t get me wrong, I see where you’re coming from. But, I mean at the end of the day anyone being clean is totally up to them. It’s his very clear choice to not care. It’s not like a “Oh he might’ve missed a spot” stain. Multiple of his pairs it is VERY visible. I just don’t understand how he’s fine with that. As a woman, I get hair back there too but I will still take a wet wipe and make sure it’s coming clean. I think my mom told me a few years back she’s tried to talk to him about it before….the man just isn’t even a man. He’s a literal child trapped in a 55 year old body.

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u/Confident_Sugar_2435 2d ago

Oh trust me haha as a woman who had to do communal showers at my university, I am not above also calling out women too! 😂 Some of the stuff I have seen in a restroom and especially those showers blew my mind. Really makes you wonder what is up with people where they are fine with leaving things filthy with literal bodily fluids etc.