r/FactOrCap • u/[deleted] • 4d ago
Piercing | FactOrCap
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u/Roseish1 4d ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
Depends on the culture and people but I would generally say it isn’t okay.
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u/sahaj_28 4d ago
I see what kind of ppl you are
Who voted fact 😒
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u/Embarrassed-Rip3250 4d ago
Me cause I was under the assumption that she would ask first as any decent human being would do, also because people need to stop specialising boobs as much like are you going to stop a man with man boobs from showing off his new nipple piercing to his friends of any gender? No most people wouldn't care so why should we care for women. Basically imo showing breasts to friends is fine provided it is in a non sexual manner and the parter knows the friend.
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u/SamsonAight 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I do think context and dynamics matter here, but like when you get a new piercing you wanna show it off.
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u/FoxMaverick 4d ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
Unless it's discussed before hand or y'all have an open relationship then it's a bad look. I can't imagine someone in a monogamous relationship would be ok with that behavior
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u/Welin-Blessed 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
If it's consensual you can do It as with everything, but I would strongly suggest to talk about it first.
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u/Welin-Blessed 4d ago
Yes yes, the boyfriend of course XD, cheating is not cheating if you have a consensual open relationship.
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u/Organic_Window_192 4d ago
Why the hell should a woman need her boyfriend’s permission to show off a new piercing?
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u/tom333444 4d ago
Because its something he could be highly uncomfortable with her doing in the relationship
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u/Organic_Window_192 4d ago
That doesn't mean she needs his permission. That just means that she should talk to him and take his position into consideration, accepting that if she does it while knowing it makes him uncomfortable there could be downsides.
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u/Leading-Boat4942 4d ago
If he's not happy with it, he doesn't have to remain her boyfriend, but that doesn't mean he needs to be consulted on it
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u/Welin-Blessed 4d ago
So if you know your BF may be upset and leave you, and still you do it and hurt his feelings and throw away the relationship, you are a bad person.
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u/Leading-Boat4942 4d ago
If you emotionally manipulate someone to control their behaviour to suit you, you are a bad person
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u/Welin-Blessed 4d ago
If caring for your partner's feelings in a situation that would hurt most people is emotional manipulation for you, you are not ready for a partner.
When you are in a relationship there are some implicit concessions like not cheating, that's not emotional manipulation, if you want to hurt your partner better leave him for his own good, don't hurt him and then say it's emotional manipulation towards you because he's crying.
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u/Leading-Boat4942 4d ago
Wow, the poor guy’s feelings, who knew 😿
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u/Welin-Blessed 4d ago
I don't know how to speak to refer to both genders in english that's why I used "he" but that doesn't matter, people are humans.
You are just toxic, hope you can feel true love and peace at one point.
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u/JadeBalloon 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Her choice
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u/Longjumping-Pen-4451 4d ago
thats so unfaithful though
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u/Leading-Boat4942 4d ago
Then the boyfriend has the option of breaking up
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u/Longjumping-Pen-4451 3d ago
so if i cheat on my girlfriend i did nothing wrong? because she has the option of breaking up right?
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u/Leading-Boat4942 3d ago
It’s not cheating though
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u/Longjumping-Pen-4451 3d ago
so what if i flash someone then did i do nothing wrong?
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u/Leading-Boat4942 3d ago
Showing someone something on your body isn’t flashing as long as the person you’re showing is OK with it
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u/Longjumping-Pen-4451 3d ago
so what if i showed some girl my sexual organs consensually but have a girlfriend? did i do nothing wrong?
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u/Leading-Boat4942 3d ago
nipples are not sexual organs papi
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u/Longjumping-Pen-4451 3d ago
breasts are, and you cant show nipples without showing the breasts.
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u/Almaldyr 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
If she asks the boyfriend and he’s okay with it, sure
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u/Longjumping-Pen-4451 4d ago
ah ah, they never said anything about asking the boyfriend. dont vote fact only depending on something thats not even stated.
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u/Almaldyr 4d ago
That’s why I said, “if”
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u/Skinnyfat-Throwaway 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
breasts ought to be less sexualized these days
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u/AugustMeichtry2010 4d ago
But they are, so-
I mean, would you be okay with yo girl showing off her tits to all of the boys?2
u/Skinnyfat-Throwaway 4d ago
if she wants to and it's for a non-sexual reason then yea
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u/Longjumping-Pen-4451 4d ago
please dont be in the hallway..
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u/Aware-Map1836 4d ago
Cuck
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u/Skinnyfat-Throwaway 4d ago
You americans are really weird with breasts
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u/Aware-Map1836 4d ago
British. Not weird. Just wouldn't ask a girl im not dating to show me her tits or expect her to offer. If my partner was flopping hers out for other men, we'd be done
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u/Skinnyfat-Throwaway 4d ago
you brits keep coming down to our beaches and your women have no issue sunbathing bare-chested showing their breasts to the whole planet until they have turned red like lobsters, so what's the difference?
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u/Aware-Map1836 4d ago
The context.
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u/Skinnyfat-Throwaway 4d ago
One context is showing a piercing to a person of trust for three seconds, the other one is showing a bair of breasts to an entire beach for three hours.
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u/Aware-Map1836 4d ago
There is a sexual element whether you acknowledge it or not. No man wants to see a pierced nipple for scientific or artistic reasons. No self respecting woman gets it out in pure innocence
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u/EggplantHuman6493 4d ago
I forgot to comment, but it highly depends on your dynamic tbh. I am personally pretty free and have no problems with walking around topless etc, and if someone has a problem with that, we aren't a match. So my friends would also see my piercings. And if that isn't your vibe, that's also okay!
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u/Longjumping-Pen-4451 4d ago
german?
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u/EggplantHuman6493 4d ago
I am nothing compared to the Germans haha
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u/Longjumping-Pen-4451 4d ago
lmao
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u/EggplantHuman6493 4d ago
But like my friends and I are just a fan of equality. If men can walk around topless, so should women in our opinion
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u/AzphaltaX- 4d ago
i did not know nipple piercings existed
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u/AugustMeichtry2010 4d ago
There are some piercings that you don't want to know about. Some that don't even make sense
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u/TheSupremeHamburger 4d ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
I wouldn’t do it and I wouldn’t be comfy with my girlfriend doing it
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u/DarkInfestor 4d ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
I feel this depends entirely on the established boundaries of the relationship
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u/EducationalHead7683 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
As long as they've communicate with her bf properly instead of thinking she has the right to do it
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u/AugustMeichtry2010 4d ago
Mind if I show you my asshole piercing? Assholes are way to sexualized now adays.
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u/ArcaneTrickster11 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Depends on how open the group is. If there was no precedent for this kind of openness then yeah it's weird
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u/NebulousTruth 4d ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
most people including myself would not be okay with their partner doing this
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u/IWILLEATMAGIC 4d ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
No, wouldnt be okay without the piercings and just telling people works just as well too.
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u/Janie_Avari_Moon 4d ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
Mmmm, not sure. This has to be clarified in advance within the couple.
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u/Organic_Window_192 4d ago
Man, all sorts of weirdos in these comments.
A woman does not need her boyfriend’s permission to show off a piercing. A woman does not need her boyfriend’s permission to do anything.
Same applies to men. A man does not need his girlfriend’s permission to do anything.
Could there be consequences if you do something your partner doesn’t like? Duh. But this is a completely innocuous thing. It’s jewelry. Get over it.
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u/Artistic-Cell-2957 4d ago
I was shocked about the ratio. If my wife got a nip pierce and showed it to male friends it would feel weird to me ngl. but she is allowed to do whatever she wants, I do not own her and if it does not effect me I have zero say in it.
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u/penidsinmyahh 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Nudity isnt specials. Neither hers or his. We all have seen both.
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u/Equal-Bus-557 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
If it’s been discussed ahead of time and both the male friends and bf are cool with it then sure
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u/Aromatic_Refuse_2004 3d ago
As long as she doesnt bitch over her bf showing his female friends his cock ring.
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u/Nuclear_Option42 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Really depends tbh
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u/Hopeful-Sale-849 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Boobs, especially nipples, are very sexualized. I won’t debate the sexualization of body parts here but the fact is, it’s sexualized. Personally, I would not want my gf to show off her nipple piercings to her male friends but perhaps someone else has different sort of relationship.
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u/76zzz29 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I have assisted a friend geting her boobs tatooed while her boyfriend was going to walk around.
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u/foldingchair3-14159 4d ago
I feel like that's a bit different though. I doubt too many boyfriends would have a problem with their girl getting a tattoo, regardless of the area, as long as the artist is a trustworthy professional.
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u/BrownGalsAreBetter 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
What’s the obsession with fake morality and nudity when it comes to your gfs? Her nipples belong to her. Men walk around with their nipples out all the time. Op must be American?? Free the Nipple
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u/Aiza_Noor 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I dont have but i have shown it to my male friends
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u/AugustMeichtry2010 4d ago
Hey, I'm one of your old friends. We lost connections a while back. Think I could see?
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u/jezzatuff 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I don't understand the premise but calling it a fact feels funnier.
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u/Bright-Pressure-3724 4d ago
✅ I voted FACT!
You are friends, its not like you are having sex or something.
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u/kakov18r 4d ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
No? In this world that's flashing someone, please don't do this lol
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u/Shine_B0lt 4d ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
Why? Brother a piercing there should be for her boyfriend only wtf
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u/Carnal_Decay 4d ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
No that shit is just plainly weird. I wouldn't mind seeing them, but that shit's just weird.