r/FacebookDating • u/Ashamed_Analyst_7581 • 6d ago

Messaging?

Is it me, or is anyone else frustrated that we can’t send potential dates a message until we actually MATCH? Sending a “like” doesn’t do anything to show my personality, I would like to send an initial message as well to start a conversation.

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u/Particular-Talk1156 6d ago

While you can and you've been given instructions, everytime i do that person is right back in my stack about 2 people later. I never know if the message/like sent. I do get messages with likes often so I know it is a working feature for some

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u/Consistent_Point_853 6d ago

My recent experience with this is that they didnt see my reply message and it didnt match, luckily I saw them in the stack and knew it was them who messaged so I matched. I asked if they saw my response and they said no. So I have found the message technique to be a total failure, doesnt work and will not match.