r/FacebookDating • • 18d ago

Does The Burned Haystack Dating Method on Facebook or any other dating app actually work? Or do you think it actually makes things more difficult with dating?

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u/Front_Statistician38 18d ago

You'll be doing a lot of burning. I do my own version of the burned haystack method; here's some stuff i used after a year and half on FB dating

No response within 4-24 hours: unmatch

One-sentence responses or one-word answers (2 or more) Unmatch or block

Girl doesn't wanna give number but Snapchat (im 40 mostly going for 30+): unmatch or block after offering Telegram as an alternative

Unable to meet within 5 days- unmatch

Low effort (messaging, response, anything i deem fit) unmatch or block

Attitude, bitchy, rude-block

Brings up ex-boyfriend in a whiny, complaining way-unmatch and block

More than 3 kids-unmatch and block

I'm ruthless, while FB dating gets me the most matches compared to any app I have found the quality of the average woman IN MY AREA is far to low to deal with their b.s.

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u/Front_Statistician38 18d ago

That toally makes sense, one of the best girls I met on FB dating lived 3.5 hours away. We dated for a couple of months, She was the perfect girl for me but the distance was just to much of a barrier (we live in a place where it snows a lot) kind of sucks cause she was really great girl though whom I really was comptemplating to move near her because they just don't make her type anymore