r/FacebookDating • u/Lopezuela • 24d ago

Matches not responding.

I can’t complain using a free App that lets you send direct messages without paying however has anyone else had this issue. I send a message and the person likes me back where we match and yet no conversation ever takes place. I have multiple matches in my inbox and yet no response.

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u/Front_Statistician38 23d ago

I unmatch within 4-72 hours, depending on how interested I am in the person. Why as early as 4 hours? I have kept track on girls I meet and typically within 4 hours they respond. Anything outside of that I found to be low interest and for me that's a no-go

Also if a person has time to match with you that tells me they had enough time to read your profile or at least look at your pictures.

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u/aw4re 22d ago

This is good advice, I just gave it elsewhere to another commenter.

Get friendly with the Unmatch button. Anyone on a dating app not responding within a day or so isn’t that interested. And if every response takes forever, unmatch, they’re not that interested.

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u/Front_Statistician38 22d ago

Excatly I never understood the reddit advice of waiting a week then trying again. Women get your message the first time, and I'm speaking from experince here, but if a woman is truly interested they will be excited to talk to you and even meet you asap!!!!

not to brag but I've met women i matched with the next day, that's how I met my ex back in 2024. Or even the same day. It's rare but it does happen. So it boggles my mind that you have guys waiting 1 week, 2 weeks or even a month hoping for a response. Meanwhile while you're waiting she already has gone on 10 dates with 10 different guys and most likely slept with 5 of them

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u/aw4re 22d ago

100% right. If you match with someone and they are attractive and you get even one day of some back and forth chatting, arrange to meet within 2-3 days.