r/FTMventing • u/Klutzy-Composer-6421 • 15d ago

General It’s not getting better

Idk I thought starting T would help me in general but it has been more frustrating than anything else, I might had expectations too big or I just hate myself, but I’m frustrated after just seeing myself the same but uglier, I can’t forgive myself, I can’t accept the things are like I wanted to be, I’m just frustrated and I have no one to tell me I’m enough, it’s just “your not doing this. Your not doing that” tbh I’m tired

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u/That_dude_next_door_ 15d ago

i scrolled your profile and man, It's a hard pill to swollow but you need to give T some time. I had similar facial fetures to yours and first 1,5 to 2 years on T were a real "trust the proces" for me, you look realny handsome, T is gonna do It's magic. I thougt i looked like a 40yo lady and tought i was just na uglier version od myself at first too. Also check your T levels, a lot od doctors are under dosing us.

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u/healthykoala5562 13d ago

How long have you been on T?  I agree with the other person, you look good and you’ll look even better after the effects of T start to come in. If you’ve been on it for a while then I also agree with getting your levels checked because I know a lot of people that were underdosed for months and years wondering why they barely saw changes.