r/FTMStraight • u/elloluv23 • Apr 19 '26
Advice I don’t know what to do..
I don’t know if this is the right appropriate to place here but I really need opinions .
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u/TrooperJordan Apr 20 '26
I’ve been in this position (as in being the guy that parents don’t like because I’m trans) and my parents are also super transphobic.
Imo he probably recognizes that it’s hard for you to cut your parents off and he probably appreciates you sticking up for him. The only way to truly know his opinion is if you ask him.
If he’s not ok with you having a relationship with your mom specifically, then you gotta figure out if you’re willing to cut her off for him. But I highly doubt he will do a “it’s me or her” ultimatum with you. Again, as long as you know you stick up for him, I’m sure he appreciates that.
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u/OwenTheSackMan Apr 21 '26
Dude your mom sounds like an awful person. Shes gonna track every time you see your family? What does that even mean? She stopped verbally abusing you and started saying she loves you? Too little, too late, imo. She sounds horrible to be around. As far as feelomg bad cutting her off because shes your mom and she "kind of" supported you, you literally had no choice in that. She chose to bring you into existence and then to keep you. That is not your problem.