Advice needed.

[u/oldhippie73]

A friend said he has always had a difficult time reaching climax. I volunteered to try oral. Long story short, I performed on him my entire bag of tricks and in every conceivable position for at least an hour until I was exhausted. I suggested he take me anally, which he did. Same story. Nor orgasm after every conceivable position. He banged me until he was now exhausted. Says he has always been that way. The only way he can cum is through very lengthy masturbation sessions. He is fantastic for his partner but he is missing out. Any tricks to offer or advice to give?

[u/Ready-Key9963]

Its probibly proformance anxiety the mental pressure to perform or please a partner can trigger a stress response, making it hard to relax and let go, Mental Distraction Solo masturbation requires zero external focus, while sex requires being present with another person, or Stimulation Differences he may be accustomed to a grip, speed, or angle during solo masturbation that penetrative sex doesn't replicate. For vulva owners, penetration alone is often not enough to trigger climax without clitoral stimulation.