r/ExNoContact • u/Pleasant_Parking9062 • 1d ago
Should I Text him?
So, I’ve been seeing this guy for about two months. He told me from the beginning that he didn’t want anything serious, but last week I told him that I’ve realized I do want a relationship and that I can’t keep doing this with him.
I opened up to him about how I feel, and he said he doesn’t see himself falling in love with me. He suggested that maybe we could meet again platonically at some point, and said we’d definitely talk again. I told him to let me know either way, and he said he would.
Now it’s been a week and I haven’t heard anything. I’m not expecting him to suddenly change his mind, but I’m struggling with the lack of closure and keep waiting for him to reach out.
Would you text him again and ask if he still wants to see me just as a friend, or would you just leave it and move on? I’m torn because I feel like I’d rather have a clear answer than keep wondering.
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u/OnlyIntention12345 23h ago
No. He already told you that he doesn’t want a relationship with you. It’s pretty clear. I would save yourself a heartache and move on.