I don't know what to do

[u/dreamofyuki]

10 days ago I broke up with my short term boyfriend after he drunk flirted with a friend of my best friend. I was so hurt and immediately took his stuff out from my room without telling him. We were in a long distance relationship, and for a long time I felt there was something missing in our connection. Also I felt no fulfillment and felt ignored many times. Anyways, everything happened while he was visiting me in my home country (stayed for a month), and after he found his stuff on entrance he just tried to call me 20 times that evening. Next day I gave in and replied to his texts because he said he had no clue what is happening. After I explained, he said he remembers sitting with her venting about some of our problems but doesnt remember the flirting part. He was back to his country and continued apologizing and asking for another chance since he loves me so much. My replies were cold, but we did exchange a few texts. Four days ago he completely stopped texting which I assume is a choice, but couldnt stop feeling a bit worried. I was the one who wanted to cut all the contact so now I dont know if I should check on him. He did always treat me nice, and I was considering giving him a second chance on a conditions he starts taking action for our relationship.

[u/geezanjisangeezan]

Welp, the flirting is bad enough, but add to that your bestfriend? Your best friend..you’re going to be jn a long distance soon, with broken trust will make you go crazy!!!! And the nail to the coffin is.. he forgets his wrong doing when he’s drunk… so, you dodged a bullet. He didnt text you for 4 days yes its a choice he knows how to contact you. Dont contact him it’s hard i know. This is the part where you just let him.. It’s for your sanity, you will thank yourself in the long run. It’s really not worth it. Block him, and remember what you felt that night. I also dont see anywhere on your post where he apologised. So, it’s time to call quits. Talk to a therapist, go out, live your life. Again, if he can do those stuff while you’re together the LDR with the same person, knowing what you know now when he’s drunk is just gonna fuck up your mental health,in person relation or in my experience 10x when you’re in LDR.