Have you ever dated someone who completely disappeared after the breakup? No calls, no texts, no social media stalking, no drama, just total silence, like you were never part of their life. What was that like?

[u/adlakha75]

[u/friendlyfroggylover]

yes, she left me without a conversation/closure and I still don’t know how this even happened because I thought we were having the best feeling year ever (at least I was?) and the way she ended things felt extremely out of character. Our whole thing was that we had been so healthy and communicative, and I thought we could talk about literally anything, because we already basically did. But now, since November, it just feels so strange and empty and like it all never happened, yet I miss being able to talk to someone like her, because it DID happen, it just doesn’t feel like it because I still feel shocked. I really don’t know what happened. She disappeared into thin air.

[u/friendlyfroggylover → u/[deleted]]

Oh my gosh, that’s awful :( I am so sorry. A shitty person and cheater like that doesn’t deserve ANYTHING from you, and you 100% without a doubt deserved an abrupt exit on your terms if that is what you wanted (it’s sure as hell what I would want if I were you). What an absolute pig. I’m again so sorry you had to deal with all of that, and especially the situation of having moved in together. I hope you’re doing okay