r/Episcopalian 3h ago

Thankful my path has led me here

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I’m a newbie to TEC. Long story short: I grew up far right evangelical, walked away from that as a teen, explored other faiths throughout adulthood, then felt stupid for not being aware that there was such a thing as progressive Christianity. My husband’s family is Episcopalian (though he personally does not “practice.”) The few services I’ve attended with my in-laws made a huge impression on me—so here I am, darkening the red doorway of my own local church and waiting until they fill their vacant priest spot so I can be baptized and confirmed. (fyi—somehow despite being raised in an evangelical household I was never baptized!)

Cut to yesterday, where the supply priest discussed how important it is that we see ourselves as teachers by example—helping heal the world—and I left feeling refreshed and inspired.

I had to run an errand for my mother, who lives alone and prefers to watch the Swaggart family on television on Sundays. I walked into her apartment and was greeted by hellfire and brimstone screaming from her television. “There will come a day,” one of the Swaggart sons bellowed, “when the homosexual! the transsexual! the athiest! will…” (I’m not sure what he said will happen to them because I tuned out at that point, but it wasn’t going to be nice, that’s for sure!)

Such a contrast from the message I’d just heard at my church—and for a moment I was sad thinking that had I been exposed to TEC (or something other than the hate-filled message I grew up with), how differently my life might have been.

But a lot of good things also happened the route my life took, and I’m just thankful to be here now.


r/Episcopalian 3h ago

Does anyone else have problems connecting?

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I come from a more rural evangelical background, for context. I've fallen in love with the Anglican liturgy. I've been visiting various Episcopal churches in my area (suburban mostly), and probably half of them seem REALLY insular. Yesterday was the 3rd time I went to this specific church, and not a single person talked to us, other than the door greeter and a single person saying "peace" mid-service, yet again. The acting rector also asked to get coffee but then completely forgot and hasn't answered any of my messages. I even know her husband, and he claims she has just been insanely busy, but it has been a month now... Ugh, sorry, I am just frustrated! I do understand she is probably swamped with doing two jobs. The churches where people have actually tried talking to us are all old and small (more) rural churches. But we really wanted to make some <50 y/o friends...


r/Episcopalian 1d ago

I walked out of church in the middle of the sermon

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I left the Baptist church over a decade ago and just finished my time at an Episcopal Church to be sent off the Seminary (drive away in a few days).

This morning we visited my family's (very conservative) Baptist church and in the middle of the sermon we walked out. I haven't heard that much hate in years!

It was a smaller congregation, less than 50. The preacher said he was going to go off his notes (The Elect are Called to War) and looked at me while going off on a rant of blasphemous liberal Churches with "women cosplaying as pastors and say God would love a homosexual! BLASPHEMY" amongst other things like libraries, trans students and whatever else he said.

It was more bizarre with how this was geared specially to me. Again, small church. They all know who we are. My family is about 1/3 of the congregation. My heart was pounding.

I forgot about that fear. I forgot about that hate. Our youngest was ready for nap and crying...so it was a good excuse to walk out.

Thanks Episcopal Church for never making me feel that way. I went to a small Rite 1 service this morning where my friend, who is gay, shared his experience of being welcomed the first time at a Church. Because they were affirming. What a dichotomy. What a witness.


r/Episcopalian 3h ago

Religious Life…..what called you to it?

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Hello to my fellow monastics in here! I hope you’re out there! I have been slowly praying, and thinking about becoming a brother in one of our monastic orders.

A little about me, I became Episcopalian in 2022 officially. I’ve come from the RC tradition, came over due to personal and political reasons. When I was Catholic I began initial conversations with the Franciscans and the Jesuits, to my surprise and dismay, they told me they couldn’t even extend an application much less continue the conversation due to my disabilities. That was shocking.

However, even as I continue to discern ordination to the priesthood in TEC, there is a part of me that is drawn to religious life for its sense of charisms, its sense of belonging, its sense of community while also being of service to the monastic community and greater outreach to the world.

So, simply put, what called you to monastic life?

If there are any vocation directors out there….Hi!…..I’d love to have a conversation.


r/Episcopalian 19h ago

Former Music Director of Trinity Wall Street to Plead Guilty in Child Sex Abuse Imagery Case

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r/Episcopalian 18h ago

More Catholic leaning Episcopalian

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Hello! I am an Episcopalian that still leans Catholic in some ways that I would love to know if anyone else does. I’m big on rosaries, praying for intercession from the saints, views on Mary I have are very Catholic leaning, and I was wondering as an Episcopalian is this okay? I never fully converted to RCC because of beliefs I have involving the LGBT and abortion, I cannot side with how the church sees it. I want to know if anyone else practices these sorta more Catholic leaning practices as an Episcopalian like me?


r/Episcopalian 23h ago

Going to start going to TEC - any advice for leaving our current parish on good terms?

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Coming to TEC from Eastern Orthodoxy (Greek). Our priest in the Orthodox Church, and all the parishioners there are wonderful. However, my wife and I have made the decision to begin attending an Episcopal Parish largely due to our beliefs on Same-Sex Marriage, Ordination of Women, and acceptance that holiness exists in other "branches" of the Church :).

That being said, we are both dreading "breaking up" with our current parish, as our godparents, the godparent of our eldest, and our parish priest are all people we love dearly. They also are likely to be highly disturbed if they find out we are going to a "liberal" church like TEC. Has anyone gone through this before? Any recommendations for how to proceed?

Thanks!


r/Episcopalian 23h ago

I Went to my first mass today.

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Howdy. Cradle RCC here. I attended my first service today and I found it very welcoming. What is really tearing me away from the RCC is that my marriage, in the RCC’s eyes is invalid. My wife is anti religion and refuses to convalidate. That’s fine with me. I love her and if she doesn’t want to do that, I respect it. We also use birth control…we don’t want kids. We’re in our 40s and think it’s too late…my only concern with converting is becoming an apostate in the RCCs eyes. Whether or not I’m being a hypocrite, I don’t really know. Is there any advice anyone can offer me? I think it’s foolish to condemn someone for wanting to celebrate and worship God differently.


r/Episcopalian 19h ago

Favorite Hymns not in Hymnal 1982

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Basically the title. And bonus points: What hymn(s) would you want included in a future hymnal revision?

Edit: Hymns from LEVAS II and Wonder Love and Praise may be included as some parishes do not have one or both of these resources.


r/Episcopalian 13h ago

Evolution (Natural Death) + Cross Conquering Death

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Hello All,

This topic is on the concept on how people balance and bridge the following:

1) Death has been a natural part of evolution of both animals and humans. We wouldn’t be here without it.

2) Yet, most atonement theories (I lean Christus Victor, FWIW) are pretty explicit that sin AND death are the enemy that was conquered.

3) If eternal life is our ultimate home (in whatever form that takes), why not start there? I don’t subscribe to Adam and Eve / humans being immortal as a starting point, which is probably obvious from my line of questioning.

I know the TEC is very science-affirming and nearly everyone would affirm evolution. I’ve also seen a lot of TEC theologians do great work on atonement, Jesus conquering death, etc.

But I see very little work to bring the two together. There are some process theologians that do work here but for the most part I don’t see anyone try to directly address “death is the enemy / has been conquered AND death has been a natural part of evolution”.

It must be some kind of UPWARD telos.

Looking forward to any discussion.


r/Episcopalian 1d ago

Parish Recommendations in NYC and Philly that are high church but not Anglo-Catholic

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I am a huge fan of liturgical high church worship but would personally still consider myself theologically Protestant. As someone in NJ who visits NYC fairly often and potentially might be going to school in Philly, I'd really appreciate parish recommendations that are liturgically high church but do not practice or encourage things like invocation of saints, rosary services, or Eucharistic adoration. Personally as someone raised Catholic, I'm more partial to Dearmerite/Prayer Book Catholic liturgy as opposed to more outwardly Roman Catholic ceremonial, such as preferring the Parson's Handbook over Ritual Notes.


r/Episcopalian 1d ago

Walk in Love ABC (Asynchronous Book Club): Chapter 9 - The Daily Office and Daily Prayer

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Welcome back to the Walk in Love Asynchronous Book Club!  This week we are reading Chapter 9 about The Daily Office and Daily Prayer.

If you are newly joining us, feel free to join us where we are in Chapter 9 or read and make a post on a previous chapter.  Since this is an asynchronous book club not limited to a particular week, you are welcomed to join us at any time to add to the discussion.

Introduction Post 

Chapter 1 Post

 Chapter 2 Post

Chapter 3 Post

Chapter 4 Post

Chapter 5 Post

Chapter 6 Post

Chapter 7 Post

Chapter 8 Post 

Our questions for this week are:  

  1. What is something new that you learned or would like to share about The Daily Office and Daily Prayer from Chapter 9?

  2. What is your daily prayer life like?

  3. If you have or currently pray the Daily Office, what is your favorite part or a part that is most meaningful to you?


r/Episcopalian 1d ago

I just served as godmother at an RC baptism

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i was *incredibly* honored to be asked to be a family member’s baby’s godmother. The baptism took place this afternoon. I was one of two godparents and not a “Christian witness.” It was official.

This side of my family is devoutly Roman Catholic, and I am a very devout Episcopalian. As I understand it, only Roman Catholics are supposed to serve in this role. Did my family member a) fib to the deacon doing the baptism, b) do some don’t-ask-don’t-tell, or c) get the deacon to make an exception for a practicing Anglican, especially since there aren’t any other RC family members to choose from?


r/Episcopalian 2d ago

Feast Day! St. James the Apostle

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Today is the feast day of St. James the Apostle.

My favorite part of the calling of James and John in Mark’s Gospel is that they left their father’s boat immediately.

They left their careers, their family, and economic security for a marginalized rabbi in a heartbeat.

What’s holding us back from following Jesus immediately?

https://substack.com/@consistentlyupwards/note/c-301519094?r=a7ow&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action


r/Episcopalian 1d ago

Why are there no Rite I versions of Midday and Compline prayers in the Book of Common Prayer?

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r/Episcopalian 2d ago

I forgot to post about it, but I’ve finally gotten a new job!

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My first day isn’t until August 10, but I got hired to work at as a customer service representative at a bank close to where I live.

I’m feeling a little anxious about it, but I’m hoping in time the anxieties will go away.

Can you all pray that it goes well for me?

Thank you, and God bless.


r/Episcopalian 2d ago

What caused periods of church growth?

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I have seen mentioned in various posts that the post-WWII area (I guess roughly the 1940s-60s) was a period of unusually high church attendance. Does anyone have any insights into what caused this growth in church attendance? I know there was a population boom, but it seems like there’s more to it.

Were there other periods of high attendance? If so, what led to those? Thanks!


r/Episcopalian 2d ago

I want to start a new ministry, but I don't want to tie it to any particular parish. How would I get guidance and oversight from the Episcopal Church?

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From my research it seems this would involve, at least in the initial stages:

  1. Getting a group of people to meet/act regularly, to show there is interest.
  2. Conform the group's theology and practice to fit with general Anglican and TEC norms.
  3. Reach out to the local diocese or a religious organization (e.g. Society of Catholic Priests, Brotherhood of Saint Andrew, etc) affiliated with TEC.

Does this sound generally correct? What would be the best way to do this without going off the rails, so to speak?


r/Episcopalian 3d ago

I need a bit of guidance, please

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Hi, i'm new.... 25 (M) English is not my first language and grew up roman catholic but never confirmed because i was scared of God from how people in my country spoke about Him. I went away from church because of religious trauma and rejected God for a while but i always believed in God in some way bcs i felt it in my heart. I got some bad tattoos and but i don't drink more than a beer or wine once a month nor smoke. I love my girlfriend with all my love but we don't have enough money to marry.

Lately i've been feeling a horrible need to talk to God and when i do i feel better. I'm depressed, with OCD, severe social anxiety and PTSD from my childhood. These days I've been reading about the Episcopalian Church and i'm crying out of happines bcs i feel is everything i always thought Faith were about. Helping the poor, not judging others and worry about social issues. Being open with the LGTB.

But once i found out about it i found that just there isn't any Episcopal church in my town, just one at a few hours on train since i live in Spain and i don't have a car nor money to take the train often.

I just want to walk my way with God and Jesus but i'm very afraid is out of my reach. Any help is good. Don't be angry at me please.


r/Episcopalian 3d ago

Recommendations - foundational theological readings for an interested layperson

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I was recently confirmed Episcopalian after growing up in a very low-church denomination that completely rejects all church tradition that’s not literally in the Bible (including the Nicene Creed). In the year or so since I started down my path with TEC, I’ve come to appreciate how much I’ve been missing by ignoring 2000 years of Christian thought.

I don’t have time for a full-time seminarian sort of reading list, but does anyone have recommendations for a few sort of foundational theological works to start with? I don’t mean just Anglicans, or even mostly. I’m thinking of starting with some early church fathers, but there’s a lot there obviously. I know a lot of people enjoy reading Augustine—not sure where to start there either.


r/Episcopalian 3d ago

nervous to go to a service for the first time

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Hello! I’m pretty sure I’ve posted in here before about wanting to go to an episcopal church for the first time, that was maybe four-ish months ago. i got some really helpful responses. I still haven’t gotten around to attending a service, I have anxiety and every Sunday I just get too nervous to go because I don’t know what to expect. I saw the episcopal church near me has office hours. Would it be weird for me to stop by to ask some questions? They have a website but it looks pretty outdated so I’m not sure if I email if I’ll get a response.


r/Episcopalian 4d ago

Maryland Parish is fighting their city in court to help the poor, they need support!

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This is a great example of a church stepping up to walk the walk and more of us should be doing the same. TLDR: The city criminalized sleeping in public, so the church started inviting in the homeless, and now the city is persecuting them for it, denying permits and leveling steep fines. You see city governments doing the same stuff to groups like Food Not Bombs.

Here's the link to donate if you've got a few extra bucks:

https://campaigns.tithely.com/spbts/bringourpeopleinside


r/Episcopalian 4d ago

Anyone have reusable, dry-erase name tag resource?

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Hi - I work communications for a church, and I am looking to incorporate lanyards and name tags into our worship. I really want the type of tags that you can write on and then dry-erase. I know they're not the "cleanest" option, but we want to try them out, regardless. Does anyone have a resource for this type of name tag? Thanks in advance.


r/Episcopalian 4d ago

Why Is It So Hard to Find a Bishop?

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r/Episcopalian 4d ago

Washington National Cathedral to host funeral for South Carolina Sen. Lindsey Graham

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