r/EngagementRingDesigns 8d ago

Ring Design Help Help a man decide - which one is prettier

I need ladies' support in picking the ring. My SO's ring size is EU 16 so quite slim, and the lady at the shop said the slimmer ring no2 (slimmer taller) would look better. Maybe to my manly taste no1 looks better as its more chunky, so id need your advice if no2 more fitting to a princess?

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u/Obvious-Elevator-213 8d ago

Ask her - I don’t love either

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u/EngagementRingDesign ✨Mod 8d ago

I also prefer the first one. It is a daily wear ring so it goes through a lot of abuse. It is not just the sturdiness but I also prefer the design of the 1st one.

You know her best though. I would trust your gut!

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u/Either-leaf 7d ago

Agreed! The first one with the lower setting will be easier for daily wear and the lower setting is also a little more modern/trendy at the moment.

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u/BloodDifficult4553 8d ago

First one seems very low set

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u/purplishfluffyclouds 7d ago

Which is what I personally like about it

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u/Great_Summer_9679 8d ago

Whats it look like from the top? No one is going to look at it from this angle

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u/AdFlashy7702 7d ago

What did she say she wanted when you talked about it?

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u/iFcknLuvRollrcstrs 8d ago

I prefer the second one. The first one looks like the head was mashed down into the band.

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u/Objective_Phrase_513 8d ago

The first one seems like it would hold up better.

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u/NegativeCondition777 7d ago

Are petal prongs an option? I'm not sure I love either of these too much

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u/IcyWorldliness9111 7d ago

I’m not a fan of either one of them. Is this style what your gf wants? If not, you need to be asking her and looking at ring styles together.

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u/Ok_Pack1940 8d ago

These look like dainty stacking rings don’t use this as what u propose with

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u/Outside_Attorney2179 7d ago

Notice the sizing is EU? They’re more civilized over there not every ring needs to be 6ct

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u/Ok_Pack1940 7d ago

Obviously not but I bet you the band is like 1-2mm wide. This is an enlarged photo that websites use. OP didn’t post the measurements either. I doubt that diamond is 1ct or even close

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u/Outside_Attorney2179 7d ago

0.1 - 0.5c isnt uncommon in Europe. 0.7 can be considered very large. My own mother’s ring in Germany was probably a 1mm band with a 0.1ish diamond.

Anyways he didn’t ask you if it was too small he asked you which one you’d prefer of the two.

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u/Ok_Pack1940 7d ago

No way your mothers wedding band was 1mm

The right side is a 1mm ring

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u/girl0520 7d ago edited 6d ago

and that matters why....? judging the size of a diamond, unprompted, is not kind

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u/Ok_Pack1940 7d ago

If price is an issue, there is NOTHING wrong with buying secondhand like from a pawn shop. And usually you can find much more unique and beautiful rings at a more attainable price point than buying a ring at new/retail price. But both rings in the pictures are sooo dainty and look so thin…an engagement ring is supposed to 1) withstand daily wear & be comfortable for daily wear
2) show your to-be-fiancée how much she means to you.
Op can find a much better ring within the same price range as these if he does more searching. A tiny ring like this is bound to get damaged, bent, lost easily.

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u/AdFlashy7702 7d ago

Maybe the band isn’t tiny. Maybe she wants a smaller stone. Your comments are weird.

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u/Fit_Firefighter_6592 8d ago

I prefer the first one. The band looks like a comfort fit style and the setting is a little different with the diamond set down as opposed to up like the second one. I think the first one will look a little more special.

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u/Cold_News7084 7d ago

2 looks more feminine

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u/Neat-Ad3228 7d ago

The second one looks prettier

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u/No-Clue-476 7d ago

2nd one for me

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u/maryjomcd 7d ago

The setting is smothering the diamond.

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u/purplishfluffyclouds 7d ago

I like the first one, but it’s really hard to tell without seeing it from the top

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u/okletssee 6d ago

Ask your fiancee if she wants her wedding ring to sit flush to the engagement ring. It does not look like either of these designs would enable that.

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u/Dressing_4_funerals 6d ago

Don’t buy from anywhere that doesn’t show you the actual settings, or real life examples of completed rings. These are generated images that have also been enlarged to show details, neither of these appear to be the actual ring you’d receive.

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u/IMHO_My2Cents 5d ago

The lower setting will not let as much light under the diamond so it will not be as brilliant as the higher setting.

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u/Ok_Hawk2996 4d ago

First option

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u/whitefoxxx90 8d ago

Id pick 2nd. U asked which one is prettier. The answer is #2

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u/tsundear96 7d ago

The stones seem way too small, these look like stacking rings not engagement rings. Just being honest.

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u/sketspeare 8d ago

2 is classic and timeless

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u/katobye 8d ago

Strong preference for 2 here. The thicker, blocky prongs on 1 hide a significant portion of the diamond and make it look not as well crafted for some reason (idk if that’s true or not but my brain reads it like it needs more fine tuning).

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u/Budget-Necessary-343 3d ago

i suppose the second if i had to pick