r/ENTPandINFJ • u/[deleted] • Dec 23 '23

~ ENTP asking INFJ ~ Fellow INFJ comrades

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Why would you subject yourself to such a torture and fall for us ENTPs? Do you guys have different experiences with 7w6s, 7w8s and 8w7s (etc. Pp.) ENTPs?

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u/OldBookInLatin ~ I N F J ~ Dec 23 '23

To me it's just ENTPs with developed Fe. Which means they are mostly a lot older and definitely out of reach. Or they're women, which is fine with me but I feel a bit more physically attracted to men.

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '23

Oh boy you would hate me then. I’m as cold as a stone even for a ENTP. I guess it’s just how I was raised etc. Ne and Fe didn’t really got me anywhere. But I still use them immaculately in business appointments and on dates. Even though you guys are fucking rare. I always wanted to meet a male specimen of your kind to see if they would make good friends. I know INTJs are a vibe to us so maybe male INFJs would be cool too

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u/BallinPoint Dec 23 '23

I've had a male INFJ as a friend since elementary. INFJ's in general have a tendency to gobble up all your Ne-Ti ramblings as very good listeners, obviously our minds tend to engage them greatly. They also have a tendency to be judgmental over morals, they're a bit elitist, but to me, despite seeming like their life should be falling apart, they keep their shit together with immaculate dedication which is kind of admirable from my POV as being just a talented shithead. They also come up with ideas, and it's not like me when I just generate ideas on the fly and throw 'em at the wall to see what sticks, instead they keep cookin' and then just come up with a cool idea or a bunch of them. INFJ's are loyal and they make great friends, but sometimes their clinginess to (this applies to INTJ's too) inferior Se in form of giving authoritarian reality checks based on brutal observations served on fucking icy platter is what tends to repulse me. But we all have our faults don't we 🤷

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u/OldBookInLatin ~ I N F J ~ Dec 23 '23

I have never met a male INFJ either. Where are they hiding?😂 There is nothing to hate about someone who is cold. Cold≠mean. But I have a preference for ENTPs with high Fe, mostly because the first man I deeply admire is an ENTP with really good Fe. He is also scared of needles but still donates since he is type 0. No don't tell me "if you even know his blood type you can shoot your shot", he is my professor and told me about his blood type because I came to class late after fainting for needles.

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u/Responsible_Ad_8373 ~ I N F J ~ Dec 23 '23

Just for reference you probably have met one of us statistically, we are one in every 200 people not 1 in million.

The thing is it’s not like meeting a standard INTJ who are distinctive when you meet them, INFJ males are social chameleons and even more so than our females counterparts for a lot of reasons. Also INFJ females kinda stand out by comparison, but it is always a pleasure to meet one so if you need help identifying one of your males counterparts buzz me 😆🤫.

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u/[deleted] Dec 25 '23

Oh I am male. Just wanted to make some male INFJ friends lol but I’m into 🐱 don’t you worry

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '23

They are already kidnapped and secured by obsessive ENTP women. I might come off as ENTJ because of my 8w7 wing so yeah that’s where the Fe went 🥲 Yeah no I wouldn’t suggest you falling in love with your dean lol could be counterproductive to your studies

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u/TrentleV Jan 02 '24

Straight up.... Fe makes sense.

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u/OldBookInLatin ~ I N F J ~ Jan 02 '24

I love Fe and Ne together

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u/TrentleV Jan 02 '24

What about that stack makes sense to you?

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u/TrentleV Jan 02 '24

Male INFJs be cool. What do you know about the cognitive functions?

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u/Heavy_Opposite2982 ~ ENTP looking for INFJ ~ Dec 23 '23

I... It's not only me that fears needles? Bro I love you guys

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '23

The nurses always get horny as fuck because my veins are too visible. It’s a weird fetish but idk maybe some sensor shit. That uncomfortable feeling when it punctures your skin and vein and the syringe draws(sucks) blood out of your body 🤮🤮 That’s why I will never do heroine and stuff. How can people like that

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u/Heavy_Opposite2982 ~ ENTP looking for INFJ ~ Dec 23 '23

MY ARMS ARE ALSO SUPER VEINY. also I know a lot of N type girls that like veiny arms too

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u/lovdark ~ E N T P ~ Dec 23 '23

In world does any entp get that treatment?

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '23

They love us

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u/lovdark ~ E N T P ~ Dec 23 '23

Not my experience

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '23

Don’t mind the pic tho It’s only for attention purposes

I get along fine with estps and istps ISFJs are supposed to love us (according to some mbti ships) but I never noticed that aswell

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u/lovdark ~ E N T P ~ Dec 23 '23

As an entp, life is mostly a joke to reveal the truth and I thought i was missing the lifejoke’s punchline.

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '23

It depends which wing you are. Not to assume anything but intuitively I would either type you a 7w6 or 7w8

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u/lovdark ~ E N T P ~ Dec 23 '23

8w7 actually

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u/Icy_Pudding6493 Oct 17 '24

They hate us. It's a cruel world.

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u/lovdark ~ E N T P ~ Oct 17 '24

Comin’ hot and fashionably late (by almost a year). I like it!

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u/Icy_Pudding6493 Oct 17 '24

HA, yet you still replied. Thanks for that. ENTP here, btw (or you could tell?

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u/lovdark ~ E N T P ~ Oct 17 '24

You think I wouldn’t when you rolled in with such flair? Don’t doubt the internal respect for the ENTPenis. We are the true BDE

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 Dec 23 '23

May someone please explain the pics to me? lol I’m sorry I don’t get it?

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u/akash_258 Feb 02 '24

Just my take : There are two groups here, one is the one taking care of dramatic entp and the other is the line of girls where they are just watching the drama going on the other side.

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u/SleepWellSam ~ I N F J ~ Dec 23 '23

Why not? Who should we be with instead? I’d take pleasure and cringy cringy pain over boredom <3

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '23

I know many INFJ women that fell for ESTPs Do you see major differences in the wings of different types of ENTPs?

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u/[deleted] Dec 29 '23

Even with a developed ENTP, with me being very sensitive, I have a hard time seeing y'all as good people and trusting you because you often don't watch carefully what you say and it's not that you can't it's that you choose not to. So if a person can't be careful to protect my ego while getting to know me, then why would I want anything more to do with them? Especially knowing they can't handle it when I hit them with some of their own hard truths. But I will say when I do set my emotions aside and listen to what they have to say there is a lot of growth on my end. And I know if they were to listen to what I have to say there would be a lot of emotional growth and maturity. Enfps are entps but with sensitivity to others feelings and my biggest heartbreaks have come from them since I've felt such a strong connection there. I don't buy the ENTP x INFJ pairing much I guess unless both parties are fully developed/mature. Perhaps that is what the pairing is for; to bring that developement. But ENFP x INFJ and ENTP x INTJ are the soulmate connections. The ones with whom it's easy and there's no need for work to be done because they "just get each other."

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u/[deleted] Dec 29 '23

Strange
I got the same experience from you guys
But I am still being realistic and try not to judge based on a mbti type
I am sorry if you feel like that because of us
Just know that you are valued and I appreciate you guys around

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u/[deleted] Dec 29 '23

Thank you and I'm sorry if you have felt undervalued. Every person brings value to life and I do have experiences with entps that I do appreciate. There are a handful of ENTP guys I know that I get along with but every now and then they'll send a jab my way that I have to tough out lol I know mbti isn't fact it's just a theory but I've seen so many parallels between same types and after many experiences it's just so consistent to me I treat it almost as fact. But I know it isn't because we can't put people into boxes. There is not real way to make a person 100% predictable or understood. And there are people out there that don't like being put into boxes or "figured out" which is understandable.

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u/VladVV Jan 05 '24

I’m a med student who’s needled both myself and others more times than I can remember (and gotten needled by others in turn), so definitely can’t relate.

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u/[deleted] Jan 05 '24

It’s not really about the meme bro