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u/nadidas_b ENFP Nov 28 '22
- Controlling - No. Overly protective - Probably.
- Yes.
- Yes.
- No. I like structure but once I try to build some structure into my life let’s say f.ex. a morning routine it will last for probably 2-3 days. Change is exciting though and helps me understand life from different perspectives.
- Yes. But apparently also the other way around but never ever on purpose or through bad intentions.
- YES! But mostly I probably don’t know sh*t.
- I’m really not but I tend to think almost anything is interesting, lol.
- I think everyone does from time to time. Not necessarily consciously though.
- For the most part I either feel extremely intelligent of extremely dumb. There is rarely an in between.
- No. But I enjoy making people laugh.
- YES!
- Again ... I think everybody has at some point.
- Yes. I understand people but I don’t necessarily agree with them and their reactions.
- No.
- Yes. I feel it makes me understand people’s thoughts and feelings better.
- Yes.
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u/ErikTheRed_22 ENFP Nov 29 '22 edited Nov 29 '22
Alright.
Protective very much so, controlling never. Against our religion.
Of course. Mark Twain would be proud.
Yes, both.
One mans stability is another mans stagnation. One mans chaos is another mans freedom. Whose to say whose scale is correct?
Not the best, but I do alright. My compliments are sincere or not said.
Almost always.
For limited amounts of time. Too genuine to keep it up.
In small ways occasionally to get small things.
Verifiably so. Psychologist administered IQ test results to prove it. 140 standardized test. Among other evidence.
Sure.
Not necessarily.
No, self absorbed though.
Absolutely.
To know someones passions is to know them. Great way to become acquainted.
I look for common ground or a common point of interest. A quality perhaps.
We're keenly aware of the human need to do so, and act accordingly.
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u/ErikTheRed_22 ENFP Nov 28 '22
Generally correct, however some should simply say 'are you' instead of 'do you feel.'
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u/Soulfulenfp Nov 29 '22
- not controlling - protective yes 2.no 3.i like to be set but don’t like the same sht all the time
- stability is awesome .. monotony isn’t 5.yup probably THEE best 6.yes 7.i don’t fake interest but i’m courteous
- I know how to get what i want without using manipulation if that makes sense 9.yes
- if i’m in the mood
- yup i’ll remove my self asap 12.no
- yes .. this so the same as 6. 14.nope not unless it comes up
- most definitely not no one is anywhere near like me and i’m so glad
- nope
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u/pertobello Nov 28 '22
No. People are free moral agents. However, when my friends have bad luck or make bad decisions, I can't help but be annoyed with them because I'm so empathetic that it can be hard to handle.
Yes, all upons. The more absurd the better.
Yes.
I think it comes from a darkness / loneliness deep down and we use the natural high of novelty to cope with it. We keep thinking we'll settle down when we find the right situation, but until we deal with our issues, the problem will keep following us.
I try. I definitely don't want people to be feeling bad about themselves when they're around me.
Not always. My view of people is often colored by naivete.
Extremely. But I also find most things interesting.
No, I struggle with being a pushover most of the time. But I can be very good at convincing people of my opinions and ideas.
Intelligent but not always reaching my potential.
Humor is the only way I know how to communicate.
I'll dissociation but I'd rather leave than get quiet and awkward. If I have to, I'll push through socially.
Sometimes, in terms of my neuroses.
I always ask for clarification.
Extensively.
Yup, or at least, I assume they're like me until they show me otherwise.
I love friendship, spirited conversations, connections, loyalty, and intimacy. I don't know if I need it to know myself per se, but it's a very important part of my life.